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Spiritual Wellness | Forgiveness + Grace

July 26, 2017 by Whitney 8 Comments

We often think of forgiveness as something we extend to other people, but how often do we forgive ourselves? How often do we extend ourselves the grace we so generously extend to others? Not sure about you, but forgiving and extending myself some grace is something I constantly work on.

At the top of 2017, I made a few declarations. I declared that I would (1) lose a certain amount of weight, (2) gain a certain amount of followers, (3) spend time nurturing old friendships, and possibly, foster new ones, and (4) save a certain amount of money. I am pleased to have made improvements in some areas, but not all. The “not all” part really irritates me. I have been tirelessly working to achieve certain goals, and to know that I have fallen short in some areas does not sit well with me.

Related: 7 Practical Ways to Deal with Stress

Dress: Want & Need, Nordstrom Rack (Another Option) // Flats: Melissa, Nordstrom Rack (Same Designer, Another Option)

Thankfully, my attitude has changed. Granted I have not met certain goals, but I have decided to extend myself some grace. I have also forgiven myself for making a few missteps along the way. Not losing those pounds, saving that amount of money, or spending time with a few friends is not the end of the world. While my intentions were good, and my heart was in the right place, things happen. Life happens, and that is OK. Thankfully, God has granted me a 2nd (3rd and 4th) chance to “get it right”. Now, it is up to me to get back on track.

Don’t forget to extend yourself the same grace and forgiveness that you extend to others.

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Related: 11 Things You Should Do Every Day

Through personal Bible study, and talking to my husband (and certain family members), I have realized that being so hard on myself is not healthy. Feeling guilty or disappointed is natural, but you should not let those feelings fester. Settling into unhappiness and disappointment can quickly lead to depression. That is a road no one wants to go down. Instead, be patient with yourself, forgive yourself, and extend yourself a little grace. Afteall, if God can forgive you, and if He can constantly extend grace and mercy towards you, daily, why can’t you do the same for yourself?

Be kind to yourself, forgive yourself, and be patient with yourself.

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Bracelets: Monet, Macy’s (Another Option)

So tell me, have you been too hard on yourself lately? What do you need to forgive yourself for? Let me know!

As always, thanks for reading and commenting. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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#WNJDrives | 2017 Ioniq Hybrid Limited

July 19, 2017 by Whitney 4 Comments

After test driving the 2017 Ioniq Hybrid Limited for a week, I can confidently say this car is one of my favorite test drives to date! I wasn’t sure how I felt about the compact hybrid at first, but once inside I was extremely impressed. The gray interior was smooth, the driver’s seat was exceptionally comfortable and the quiet engine was a major plus! There were times I didn’t even know the car was on; that’s how quiet the engine was. When I opened the trunk, I was pleasantly surprised by the massive amount of space. I would’ve never guessed the trunk was that spacious.

* Read Also, 2017 Hyundai Santa Fe Review

This 5 passenger hybrid handled the Howard County roads well. Not only did I feel safe, but I also felt in control the entire time. As I ventured to Downtown Baltimore over the weekend, I felt like the Inoiq was gliding down 95. The ride was so smooth! Parking on the crowded downtown sidewalks was a breeze. I zipped in and out of my parking space like that! But don’t let the small body fool you; this car has A LOT of get-up and go! Check out some the key features, including a brief video showcasing the phenomenal sound system, as well as my list of pros and cons.

KEY FEATURES

HID Headlights, LED Daytime Running Lights & LED Taillights
* Wireless Device Charging for Compatible Smartphones
Android Auto(TM) & Apple CarPlay(TM) Integration
* Integrated Memory System (IMS) for Driver’s Seat
Blind Spot Detection with Rear Cross Traffic Alert
Leather Seating Surfaces with Power Driver’s Seat
7-inch Color Touchscreen Audio Display
Hyundai Blue Link Telematics System
Bluetooth Handsfree Phone System
* Lane Departure Warning
Rearview Camera

* Price with Additional Features, $31,460.00

PROS

AMAZING Sound System
Power Tilt & Slide Sunroof
Very Spacious Trunk

CONS

Not the most Spacious Backseat
- made to seat 3 but realistically seats 2 people, semi-comfortably
- not much knee or leg room

So, what do you think about the 2017 Ioniq Hybrid Limited? Let me know!

Thanks for reading and be sure to leave your thoughts below. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Personal Style | How to Casually Style a Sleeveless Vest this Summer

July 11, 2017 by Whitney 18 Comments

One of my favorite items in my closet is this black sleeveless vest. Whenever I wear it I feel chic, on trend and well put together. Like my collection of kimonos, a having at least one sleeveless black vest in your wardrobe is a must. This kind of vest is a timeless garment that can be dressed up or down. It can also be styled year-round.

Related: Sleeveless Vest + Black Dress

Top: Nordstrom Rack (similar) // Denim: JCP (another option) // Purse: Gifted // Vest: TJMaxx (similar & similar) // Shoes: DSW, Adrienne Vittadini (same)

On this particular day, I styled the vest with one of my go-to summer tops, as well as my favorite pair of jeans. Becuase I was headed out for a day date with hubs, I decided to wear a red lip. A nice pop of color on the lips is the easiest way to kick a basic outfit up a few notches. Adding an armful of bangles or beaded bracelets is also another way to amp up a basic outfit. So, I pulled out my beautiful Kambaba Jasper bracelet, c/o Joseph Nogucci, and layered it with a pair of bronze beaded bracelets I’ve had for years.

Every wardrobe needs at least 1 sleeveless black vest. It’s a timeless and classic piece. #wnjstyle

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Hubs was happy that I finally decided to style my latest pair of platform flats. He picked them out for me a while back and I’m so glad he did. I LOVE them! I’m telling you, platform flats and oxfords have become “my thing” this season. As I mentioned previously, I don’t wear heels that often. However, I like to have a little height every now and then. Opting for a pair of shoes with a slight platform is a nice compromise.

How to Casually Style a Sleeveless Black Vest this Summer #wnjstyle

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Kambaba Jasper Beaded Bracelet c/o Joseph Nogucci: (same) // Gold Beaded Bracelets: Gifted (similar)

So tell me, do you like how I styled my sleeveless vest? Do you have one in your closet? Let me know!

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Personal Style | Wearing Stripes + 4 Questions to Ask Before Buying Something New

July 3, 2017 by Whitney 17 Comments

So, I’m still trying to get my minimal wardrobe down pat. I took a break from shopping and organizing my closet for about a month or so, in order to focus my attention elsewhere. But as of last month, I’m back in action. This striped blouse, purchased for just $7.99 at Macy’s, is actually one of my latest minimal wardrobe additions. Wearing stripes for me comes as natural as wearing leopard print and as much as I love solids, styling prints every so often is a must!

* Read Also, How to Style 1 Kimono 3 Ways

Blouse: Macy’s // Bodysuit: F21 // Leggings: Philosophy, TJMaxx (another option) // Necklace: Purchased in NY // Shoes: Vince Camuto, Nordstrom Rack (similar style)

Before deciding to purchase this blouse I had to come up with at least 3 ways to wear it. Regardless of the sale price, if it didn’t serve a purpose in my wardrobe, and if it didn’t make me happy, I wasn’t going home with it. Gone are the days when I purchase an item “just because” it’s the right price. My budget and my closet can no longer afford it.

:: SHOPPING TIP :: Before purchasing an item, make sure you can style it at least 3 ways. #wnjstyle

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I approach shopping for new wardrobe items, shoes and accessories included, in a different way these days. It’s taken some getting used to and there are times when I find myself slipping back to my old ways of shopping, but more often than not I catch myself. To help keep me on track I have 4 questions, in the Notes section of my phone, that I often refer to each time I go shopping for something new. You may find them helpful.

Can you afford this item right now?
Does this item fit into your lifestyle?
Can you style the item at least 3 ways?
Does this item speak to your personal style?

4 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Buying Something New #wnjstyle

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Tote Bag: Marc Jacobs, Nordstrom Rack (another option)

So tell me, do you ask yourself certain questions before making new wardrobe purchases? Also, are you a fan of wearing stripes? Let me know!

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Personal Style | How to Style a Kimono 3 Ways

June 28, 2017 by Whitney 11 Comments

Kimonos are one of my favorite wardrobe pieces to style. The way they flow in the wind and gently cling to your shoulders is effortless. Simply put, my love for kimonos runs deep. So, when I was approached by my brother-in-style, Sam of samcperry.com, to collaborate with him on a kimono post, saying YES was a no-brainer; check out his kimono post here.

Kimonos can be styled in a plethora of ways. From the workplace to date night, to a casual weekend running errands, kimonos are the perfect accessory. If you’re unsure about how to style your kimono this season, today’s post on how to style a kimono 3 ways will definitely give you a few ideas.

Look 1

Kimono: Want & Need, Nordstrom Rack (similar) // Dress: Marshall’s (similar) // Necklace: oNecklace // Shoes: Kate Spade, DSW (same brand & similar style)

Look 1 is definitely a workplace or date night outfit. I’m not a fan of wearing heels, so to spruce up this look I added a pair of sparkly flats. I believe every woman should own at least 2-3 pairs of fancy flats, especially if you don’t wear heels often. Now, I could’ve let the black dress stand alone but instead, I added the kimono. This simple touch adds an element of sophistication and elegance.

Adding a kimono to your outfit instantly adds an element of elegance to your look. #wnjstyle

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Look 2

Tunic: TJMaxx // Shorts: Torrid (similar) // Sandals: Birkenstocks, DSW (same)

It took me a few years to own a pair of short shorts. I’ve always loved my legs, but I never thought I’d find a pair of short shorts that would “work for me.” Fast forward to now, I’ve found a pair and you can’t tell me a thing! Adding the kimono to this look gave the outfit a more feminine and chic look. Look 2 is perfect for a summer barbecue, running errands or even a cute movie day date. It’s an effortless and easy breezy look and it’s one that I’ll be wearing throughout the entire summer season.

How to Wear a Kimono with a Pair of Shorts this Summer #wnjstyle

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* Read Also, How to Style a Men’s Kimono

Look 3

T-Shirt: Target (similar) // Pants: American Rag, Macy’s / Necklace: oNecklace

On those cool summer days, wearing a kimono with a t-shirt and a pair of lightweight pants is a perfect option. Without the kimono Look 3 would be a bit boring, in my opinion. Still cute, but boring. The floral kimono adds a stylish element to a very basic look. This is yet another effortless summer outfit, perfect for several occasions.

How to Style 1 Kimono 3 Ways #wnjstyle

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So tell me, which look is your favorite? Let me know!

Thanks for reading and be sure to let me know your thoughts below. Also, don’t forget to head over and read Sam’s post. Be sure to show him some love! Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Personal Style | How to Incorporate Prints Into Your Summer Wardrobe

June 13, 2017 by Whitney 6 Comments

With temperatures reaching above 90 degrees, for 3 days straight, it looks like summer is making it’s way to the East Coast. I’m not a huge fan of scorching temperatures unless I’m on a beach or near a pool, but I’m trying my best to prepare for the approaching season by adding some summer pieces to my wardrobe. As I mentioned in this post, I’m still shopping while in between sizes. This goes for my clothes and shoes so it’s a little frustrating at times, but I’m making it work.

Top: Blu Pepper, Nordstrom Rack (similar) // Sunnies: H&M (similar)

Over the weekend I decided to pull out my favorite pair of pants. I was skeptical about how they’d fit; after all, it’s been more than 2 years since I’ve worn them. Once I figured out they fit, it was on! I paired the flowy pants with one of my new sleeveless tops and threw on the most comfortable pair of sandals, EVER. My black Birkenstocks. Can I just tell you that I’ve been dying to have a pair of these sandals? For years I couldn’t fit shoes/sandals with straps of any kind; even if they were adjustable. They just weren’t comfortable. Fast forward 2 years and I’m down a 1/2 shoe size and I no longer suffer from swollen feet and ankles! #WontHeDoIt

How to Incorporate Prints Into Your Summer Wardrobe #wnjstyle

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Pardon my excitement… Let’s get back to the outfit, shall we? Pairing 2 loose-fitting clothing items can sometimes make you look heavier than you are. However, if your top has a flattering hemline like the one here, it works. Also if you’ve been trying to figure out how to incorporate prints into your summer wardrobe, start with a pair of pants like this and add a solid top. Simple enough, right?

* Read Also, More Plus Size Spring Fashion

Pants: Bobeau, Nordstrom Rack (another option) // Sandals: Birkenstock Essentials, Nordstrom (exact)

So tell me, are you going to incorporate prints into your summer wardrobe? Let me know!

Thanks for reading and until next time, stay blessed and be safe…XO!

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#WNJDrives | 2017 Mazda 6 Grand Touring

June 7, 2017 by Whitney Leave a Comment

I know I’ve said it before, but I really enjoy test driving and reviewing cars for WNJ! As on-the-go as I am each day, it’s always nice to have a reliable and safe car to drive. A few weeks ago I had the opportunity to test drive the 2017 Mazda 6 Grand Touring, an extremely reliable and safe midsize car.

* Read Also, 2017 Mazda CX-9 Car Review

Thanks to Mazda’s newest innovation, the SKYACTIV-VEHICLE DYNAMICS with G-Vectoring Control, the ride was extremely smooth. This feature made me feel particularly comfortable and confident while driving. Where I went, the car went. I was in total control and the car handled the curves of the road effortlessly. Check out a few more key features, as well as my pros and cons of the 2017 Mazda 6 below.

KEY FEATURES

7” Color Screen Display (IMPROVED)
Bluetooth Handsfree Phone/Audio
Traffic Sign Recognition (NEW)
Leather Trimmed Sports Seats
Smart Brake Support System
Lane Departure Warning
Advanced Keyless Entry
Rear Cross Traffic Alert
G-Vectoring Controls
Push to Start Engine
Lane-Keep Assist

* Price Starts at $30,695

PROS

Clean & Sleek Interior & Exterior
Active Driving Display
Good Trunkspace
- 60/40 split fold-down rear seat

CONS

Not Really a Spacious Backseat
- made to seat 3 but realistically seats 2 people, semi-comfortably
- not much knee or leg room
So-So Sound System
- could’ve had more bass & a better overall sound quality

* Read Also, 2017 Mazda CX-3 Review

So tell me, what are your thoughts on the 2017 Mazda 6 Grand Touring? Let me know!

Thanks for reading and be sure to leave your thoughts below. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Personal Style | How to Style a Kimono and Jeans

May 31, 2017 by Whitney 13 Comments

Is it me or is the “Spring Weather” a little confusing these days? Most mornings I don’t know if I should grab a sweater, a kimono or a coat! In any event, I’ve been gravitating towards my collection of full-length kimonos. No matter the outfit, I have about 4 kimonos in constant rotation. The one I’m wearing in this post happens to be one of my favorites. It’s perfect for the fickle weather we’ve been experiencing; not too heavy, great length and the perfect fit.

* Read Also, How to Style a Men’s Kimono

Kimono: TJMaxx // Denim: JCP // Tote Bag: Marc Jacobs, Nordstrom Rack (Similar Style) // Flats: Vince Camuto, Nordstrom Rack (Same in Black)

Becuase my wardrobe is more on the minimal side wearing a kimono and jeans, or a kimono with a pair of black leggings, has become somewhat of a uniform. As I mentioned in a previous post, creating a work uniform saves so much time and energy in the mornings. But guess what? I’ve also learned that creating a weekend uniform isn’t such a bad idea either!

How to Style a Kimono with a Pair of Ankle Length Jeans #wnjstyle

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Most of my weekends are spent running errands, attending events for family and friends, going to church, or taking day trips with my husband. Having a few key wardrobe pieces to mix and match is a definite time saver. Sure, you can add different accessories or have several pairs of shoes to choose from, but having the foundation of an outfit already planned is key. This may sound a little boring, but trust me when I tell you there are several ways to restyle a kimono and a pair of jeans.

A kimono and a pair of jeans is the perfect weekend uniform. #wnjstyle

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So tell me, do you have a weekend uniform? What do you think about styling a kimono and jeans? Let me know!

Thanks for reading and be sure to let me know your thoughts below. I absolutely love reading and responding to your comments! Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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