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Personal Style | How to Add Color to Your Wardrobe

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It’s no secret that I love wearing black. But lately, I’ve been adding more color to my wardrobe. It’s been a gradual process, but I’m enjoying it. I’ve never been opposed to color, I think I just got comfortable wearing mostly black.

See Also: Creating a Signature Wardrobe

Black clothing is effortless when it comes to styling, and it’s such a chic and powerful color to wear. Styling colorful clothing takes more effort, for me anyway. But I’ve found a few ways to make adding color to my wardrobe both fun and practical. Check out 3 tips on how to add color to your wardrobe below!

Neutral Colors and Leopard Print

Adding Color to Your Wardrobe

T-Shirt: Nordstrom Rack (other colors) // Turban: Amazon Fashion (same) // Necklace: Thrifted

How to Add Color to a Wardrobe

 

  1. Start Small
    • If you want to start adding more color to your wardrobe start small. Try adding colorful accessories, shoes or even lipstick to your wardrobe first. Get comfortable with a little color before making larger purchases like tops, bottoms, and outerwear.
  2. Pick a Season
    • Plan ahead and decide which season you’re going to start adding more color to your wardrobe. Research magazines, Pinterest, Instagram and other sources to find seasonal wardrobe inspiration. When adding color to your wardrobe by season, I suggest focusing on certain clothing items. For example, if you want to start in the fall, focus on adding a few sweaters and maybe one or two jackets. Being selective about your additions will help you avoid overspending, and it’s a great way to build around the wardrobe you already have.
  3. Have Fun
    • Incorporating color in your wardrobe should be fun! Don’t overthink the process like I did. Choose colors (and prints) that you enjoy wearing. Of course, I always suggest gathering fashion and style inspiration. However, when it comes to picking the right colors and prints for you, wear what makes you happy.
3 Simple Ways to Start Adding Color to Your Wardrobe #wnjstyle

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Neutral Colors and Leopard Print

Neutral Colors and Leopard Print

Shoes: Sam Edelman, Nordstrom Rack (same) // Pants: Melloday, Nordstrom Rack (same in black)

How to Add Color to Your Wardrobe

Tell me, how do you incorporate color into your wardrobe? Comment below! 

Thanks, as always, for reading and commenting and until next time, be blessed and stay safe.

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Lifestyle | 5 Quick & Easy Ways to Boost Your Mood

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Throughout the month of July, my mood was like a roller coaster. My workout routine dwindled, my workload picked up a bit, and my eating habits, well, let’s skip that part for now. All those things, I’m sure, had a lot to do with my everchanging moods. Nonetheless, I tried not to let those things throw me off (too much). Instead, I began making small changes and figuring out simple ways to boost my mood. If you’re looking for quick and easy ways to boost your mood, I’ve got five that I’m sure you will find helpful!

Related: 7 Practical Ways to Deal with Stress
5 Quick & Easy Ways to Boost Your Mood

Pants: Nordstrom Rack, MELLODAY (another option) // Tshirt: Nordstrom Rack, Bobeau (Same)

  1. Take a Break from Social Media 
    • Constantly scrolling through your Instagram and Facebook feeds can be draining. Give your brain, and your fingers, a rest. Try designating certain times to check your social media feeds, and if you’re up for it try a social media free weekend. I do them quite often. No posting, no scrolling, and no commenting. I just enjoy my surroundings and focus on engaging in activities that make me happy. If you find that you really want to share what you did on social media, snap a few pictures and post them later.
  2. Create a Playlist
    • I’ve mentioned this several times, but listening to music helps improve my mood tremendously. Creating a playlist full of your favorite songs is one of the easiest ways to boost your mood!
  3. Go for a Walk 
    • I love to go for leisurely outdoor strolls and nature walks. Connecting with nature can definitely rejuvenate your mood. The perfect times (for me) to go for walks are early morning or late evening. The weather is perfect and your surroundings are usually peaceful. Hearing birds chirp in the morning or watching the sunset in the evening is the perfect way to start or end any day.
  4.  Treat Yourself (and don’t feel guilty about it)
    • I’m not one to encourage constant indulging, but every now and then it’s OK to treat yourself. Treating yourself to something as simple as an ice cream cone or a new book can do wonders for your mood! You deserve a pick-me-up every now and then.
  5. Put on Your Favorite Lipstick
    • This is new for me. I usually prefer a nice nude gloss but lately, I’m noticing that putting on a nice red lip is an instant mood booster. It makes me feel powerful and it makes me feel FEARLESS!
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Sunglasses: TJMaxx (another option) // Flats: Nordstrom Rack (another option) // Earrings: Nordstrom Rack (another option) // Turban: Amazon (same)

Tell me, what are some of your quick and easy ways to boost your mood? Comment below! 

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Lifestyle | How to Make Things Happen in Business, in Relationships & in Life in General

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The older I get the more I realize that people are scared to make things happen. Whether it’s a business decision or a romantic one many people are paralyzed by either the fear of failure or the fear of success. I have been guilty of being fearful of both.

Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen. ~ Michael Jordan

However, I’ve learned that in order to be successful in life I can’t afford to be afraid of the “what if’s.” I also can’t talk about making things happen more than actually putting in the work to make them happen. Read ahead for 6 things to keep in mind while making things happen in your business, relationships, and life in general.

How to Make Things Happen

1. Commit 

  • First things first. In order for a business, a relationship or a marriage to succeed you have to be all in. Half committing won’t cut it. Period. Deciding to commit is both the hardest and most important part when it comes to making things happen.
Related: How to Choose a Word of the Year

2. Don’t Over Share

  • Whether it’s a new business idea or a relationship/or marriage, you don’t need to share everything with everybody.  My advice is to find three people to share those intimate and specific details with. These people should be trustworthy, honest, and loyal. If you’re in a relationship or married, the first person in this trifecta should be easy. Your partner. When it comes to the other two, pray for discernment while seeking them out, then go with your gut.
Related: Life Lessons at 31
How to Make Things Happen

Black Dress: Marshall’s // Long Cardigan: Bobeau, Nordstrom Rack (same) // Glasses: Beauty Supply Sore

3. Track Your Progress

  • Create a Vision Board for your business, relationship/or marriage. Place the board somewhere you can see it, and keep track of your progress and accomplishments. For example, say you have images on your board that represent purchasing office space, traveling to Europe or owning a home. Once you’ve accomplished that goal remove those images, and store them in a place you can refer back to. Eventually, you will have an empty board. An empty Vision Board equals accomplished goals.
Related: Vision Board Do’s & Don’ts

4. Don’t be Too Hard on yourself 

  • You will make mistakes. A business deal will fall through. An idea won’t work. Your relationship will hit a rough patch. You will go through difficult seasons in your marriage. It’s ok. Nothing and no one is perfect. Give yourself some grace. You’ve already made the decision to commit, so dig in your heals and push through.
Related: Forgiveness & Grace
How to Make Things Happen

Purse: Marc Jacobs, Nordstrom Rack (Similar) // Sneakers: Jessica Simpson, DSW (Similar) //  Earrings: Nordstrom Rack (Similar)

How to Make Things Happen

5. Celebrate Your Success

  • Don’t be afraid to celebrate the good things that happen to you. The celebrations don’t have to be elaborate but then again, they can be. Afterall, you deserve it!

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. ~ Oprah Winfrey

Related: 21 Things to do This Summer

6. REPEAT

How to Make Things Happen

So tell me, what are some things you’d like to see happen in your life? How are you making them happen? Let me know!

Thanks, as always, for reading and commenting and until next time, be blessed and stay safe.

Love & light…xo!

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Lifestyle | 21 Things to Do This Summer

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It’s officially summertime! I have a few things planned, but nothing too major. I’m definitely looking forward to spending time and creating memories with my husband, family, and friends. I’m thinking a few dinner parties, visits to flea markets, reading a few books, planning a road trip here and there, just to name a few things. If you’re looking for something fun, new and creative to do this season, check out my list of 21 Things to Do This Summer.

21 Things to Do This Summer

1. Pick a cause close to your heart &  find out how to give back to that organization

2. Have a social media free weekend

3. Create a Summer 2018 photo album

4. Plan a weekend staycation

5. Give up fast food for a week

6. Try making a recipe from Pinterest

7. Attend an outdoor concert or festival

8. Take a road trip

21 Things to Do This Summer

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9. Learn how to play an instrument

10. Plan a dinner party for your family & friends

11. Read at least 2 new books

12. Go thrift shopping & yard sale hunting

13. Sell some items you no longer use (that are still in good condition) online

14. Pay for a strangers meal

15. Treat yourself to a spa day

16. Binge-watch a Netflix series

The Perfect Summer Bucket List

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17. Read & study at least one book in the Bible

18. Watch the sunset

19. Test drive your dream car

20. Write & mail a few “Just Becuase” cards to family & friends

21. Learn the basics of a new language

21 Things to Do This Summer

 So, what are some of your summer plans? Let me know below! 

Thanks, as always, for reading and commenting and until next time, be blessed and stay safe.

Love & light…xo!

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Personal Style | Creating a Signature Style

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As you know, I’m all about comfort when it comes to clothing. I’ve documented my personal style for years, and the one thing that remains consistent is my need for comfort and functionality. I love to look good and I’m all about being chic and fashion-forward. However, you don’t have to compromise comfort to accomplish those things. So, how do I achieve my signature comfy, yet chic and fashion-forward style? It’s all about the 3 F’s; Fabric, Fit, and Function.

See Also: Tips on Stretching Your Wardrobe
Creating a Signature Style

 Sweatshirt: Marshalls // Denim: Wit & Wisdom, Nordstrom Rack (same) // Sandals: Birkenstock Essetials, DSW (same) // Tote Bag: Marc Jacobs, Marshalls (similar)

Creating a Signature Style

  1. Fabric
    • Knowing how certain fabrics fit your body is something every woman should know. This will help make curating your closet such an easy process. 9 times out of 10 I can tell if I’m even going try something on just by feeling the item and examining the fabric. For bottoms, I prefer a soft cotton with a little stretch (i.e. rayon, spandex, or both). When it comes to tops, the more flowy and forgiving the better. Depending on the brand, I can do a stiffer cotton, like the sweatshirt worn here, but my preference is a fabric that moves with me (i.e. polyester, rayon/spandex blend)
  2. Fit
    • If it doesn’t fit, don’t buy it. Period. Why would you want to wear something that’s uncomfortable and unflattering? If a garment is ill-fitting save your money and find something else. Now, if you really LOVE the item and you honestly think having the piece altered will make the fit more comfortable, by all means, purchase it. However, if the alterations are going to cost more than the item, is it really worth it?
  3. Function 
    • Being able to function in your clothing is very important. Think about your daily lifestyle and figure out what kind of items are ideal for your day-to-day activities. Purchase items that cater to your lifestyle (and budget), not the latest trends.
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Creating a Signature Style

So tell me, what tips do you have when it comes to creating a signature style? Let me know!

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Personal Style | Blue Floral Kimono and Converses

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I’ve been on the hunt for a few spring and summer kimonos. During a recent trip to Nordstrom Rack, I found just what I was looking for! Kimonos are one of the most versatile wardrobe staples, and I think every woman should own at least 3; one for casual wear, one that’s a bit fancier, and one that’s a solid color. During my shopping trip, I actually purchased 2 solid kimonos, a black and a tan, and then this blue floral one. I immediately thought of 3  different ways to wear it, so I knew it was a solid purchase.

See Also: 3 Tips to Help Find Your Personal Style
Blue Floral Kimono OOTD

Kimono: Bobeau, Nordstrom Rack // Denim: Wit & Wisdom, Nordstrom Rack (same)

Blue Floral Kimono OOTD

Blue Floral Kimono OOTD

Styling this kimono with converse sneakers and fashion glasses was fun! The glasses were a last minute addition, but they definitely worked! I love playing with accessories and styling sneakers with certain looks. I think converses, especially the black low tops, give an outfit a more laidback look. Adding certain accessories, like the glasses and floral kimono, make an outfit like this a bit more polished and chic. It’s the perfect blend, and I can see making this a definite go-to look, especially for the weekends and casual date nights.

How to Wear a Kimono and a Pair of Sneakers ft. @Converse #wnjstyle

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Blue Floral Kimono OOTD

Glasses: Local Beauty Supply Store (same as sunglasses) // Sneakers: Converse (same) 

Blue Floral Kimono OOTD

Blue Floral Kimono OOTD

So tell me, what do you think about my new blue floral kimono? Have you stocked up on kimonos for the season? Let me know!

Thanks, as always, for reading and commenting and until next time, be blessed and stay safe.

Love & light…xo!

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Travel | Our Trip to Los Angeles, Part I

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Darrius and I celebrated our 5th year wedding anniversary in Los Angeles, California. Although we’ve both been to California before, we’ve never been as a couple. So, we decided to head to the West Coast for 6 days. While there, we explored the city, visited family, and most importantly, enjoyed one another’s company. The trip was absolutely wonderful, and we’ve decided to make visiting California a once a year trip.

See Also: Our Trip to Punta Cana

I was excited to take A LOT of pictures, and I was also looking forward to filming my first vlog in LA. I guess God had other plans because right after we went through security at the airport, I realized that I forgot the camera. I was upset for about 20 minutes, then I got over it. I took it as a sign that I needed to be fully present during our trip. I didn’t need to worry about shooting several outfit pictures, nor did I need to stress about filming the “perfect” vlog. Whatever I needed to capture would be done using my iPhone 8 plus. That said, enjoy my LA vlog (shot using my iPhone), as well as a few of my favorite (iPhone) pics from the trip!

Santa Monica Pier

Santa Monica Pier

I plan to post Part II of our LA trip very soon. Part II will include specific details about some of the places seen in my vlog, as well as provide more info on our hotel stay. I also want to talk about the Studio City area, which my husband and I absolutely LOVE.

Places to Go While Visiting LA #wnjtravels

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Trip to Los Angeles

Me & Hubs at the Universal Studios Metro Stop

The Last Bookstore in LA

The Last Bookstore in Downtown LA

So tell me, have you ever been to LA? If so, what are some of your favorite places to visit? Also, what’d you think about my first vlog? Let me know! 

Thanks, as always, for reading and commenting and until next time, be blessed and stay safe.

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Music | 5 Underrated Female Albums & EP’s

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I can’t live without is music. Take away television, social media, even books (just not the Bible). As long as I have access to music, I’m good. Thanks to my Mom, ever since I was younger, music has been a huge part of my life. In middle school, I would rush home to watch 106 & Park, TRL, and The Box Music Television. I would get in so much trouble ordering music videos on The Box. I also used to save up my ALL of my allowance just to purchase CDs and cassette tapes from Sam Goody. Talk about the good ol’ days.

See Also: 23 Songs You Need on Your Workout Playlist

Fast forward many years, and my love for music still remains. While I can listen to just about any genre, my preferred genres are R&B, Smooth Jazz, and NeoSoul. These days I don’t listen to the radio much, but I do get a healthy dose of my favorite genres thanks to Spotify and Apple Music. I’ve been listening to a lot of female artists more and more, and there are 5 albums and EP’s that I have on heavy rotation. I believe these are currently some of the most underrated female albums & EP’s. I can easily listen to each album or EP straight through, no skips. Granted some of their singles can (finally) be heard on the radio, but these artists deserve more play than just a 1 or 2 of their singles. Their work deserves to be celebrated and recognized.

Underrated Female Albums & EP's

1. (2014) VII (Delux) – Teyana Taylor

  • The album itself is very grown and sexy and I’m here for it! Teyana’s velvety soft and sultry voice has incredible range. The beats on this album are SICK, she delivers each song beautifully, and they each tell a story.

2. (2016) Change – Ella Mai

  • I was first introduced to this British singer about a year ago, thanks to Sirius XM Radio. Signed to DJ Mustard’s label, Ella Mai is another songstress who knows how to tell a story with her simple and memorable lyrics. Her sound is reminiscent of the classic 90’s R&B days. So, of course, I’m a fan!

3. (2016) Lauren – Keke Palmer

  • I’ve always been a fan of Keke, but when she dropped this EP I saw her in a different light. Gone are the Akeelah and the Bee days! Keke is all grown up, and she proves this to be true with each song. The songs are all different and like a true artist, Keke knows how to paint a picture through her vulnerable, fearless, and sometimes playful, lyrics. I also thoroughly enjoyed the visual EP, Lauren.

Lauren (Official Video, Explicit) by Keke Palmer on VEVO.

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4. (2017) H.E.R. – H.E.R. Vol. 2– The B Side

  •  A little sultry, a little neo-soul, this album, from start to finish, is superb! This singer-songwriter delivers her soft and breathy lyrics effortlessly. It’s very easy to get lost in her soothing voice.

5. (2018) Fate – Tammy Rivera

  • Tammy teamed up with Executive Producer Rico Love to create this transparent and very well-produced EP. You can hear every emotion in Tammy’s voice, and with each song comes a catchy hook. Her lyrics are honest and relatable, and while the beats are mostly slow to mid-tempo, they will definitely have you nodding your head back and forth.

Listen to some of these albums and EP’s, plus a few other underrated female artists below.

So tell me, what do you think about these albums and EP’s? Which female artists do you think are underrated? Let me know!

Thanks, as always, for reading and commenting and until next time, be blessed and stay safe.

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