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Lifestyle | How to Make Things Happen in Business, in Relationships & in Life in General

July 17, 2018 by Whitney 8 Comments

The older I get the more I realize that people are scared to make things happen. Whether it’s a business decision or a romantic one many people are paralyzed by either the fear of failure or the fear of success. I have been guilty of being fearful of both.

Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen. ~ Michael Jordan

However, I’ve learned that in order to be successful in life I can’t afford to be afraid of the “what if’s.” I also can’t talk about making things happen more than actually putting in the work to make them happen. Read ahead for 6 things to keep in mind while making things happen in your business, relationships, and life in general.

How to Make Things Happen

1. Commit 

  • First things first. In order for a business, a relationship or a marriage to succeed you have to be all in. Half committing won’t cut it. Period. Deciding to commit is both the hardest and most important part when it comes to making things happen.
Related: How to Choose a Word of the Year

2. Don’t Over Share

  • Whether it’s a new business idea or a relationship/or marriage, you don’t need to share everything with everybody.  My advice is to find three people to share those intimate and specific details with. These people should be trustworthy, honest, and loyal. If you’re in a relationship or married, the first person in this trifecta should be easy. Your partner. When it comes to the other two, pray for discernment while seeking them out, then go with your gut.
Related: Life Lessons at 31
How to Make Things Happen

Black Dress: Marshall’s // Long Cardigan: Bobeau, Nordstrom Rack (same) // Glasses: Beauty Supply Sore

3. Track Your Progress

  • Create a Vision Board for your business, relationship/or marriage. Place the board somewhere you can see it, and keep track of your progress and accomplishments. For example, say you have images on your board that represent purchasing office space, traveling to Europe or owning a home. Once you’ve accomplished that goal remove those images, and store them in a place you can refer back to. Eventually, you will have an empty board. An empty Vision Board equals accomplished goals.
Related: Vision Board Do’s & Don’ts

4. Don’t be Too Hard on yourself 

  • You will make mistakes. A business deal will fall through. An idea won’t work. Your relationship will hit a rough patch. You will go through difficult seasons in your marriage. It’s ok. Nothing and no one is perfect. Give yourself some grace. You’ve already made the decision to commit, so dig in your heals and push through.
Related: Forgiveness & Grace
How to Make Things Happen

Purse: Marc Jacobs, Nordstrom Rack (Similar) // Sneakers: Jessica Simpson, DSW (Similar) //  Earrings: Nordstrom Rack (Similar)

How to Make Things Happen

5. Celebrate Your Success

  • Don’t be afraid to celebrate the good things that happen to you. The celebrations don’t have to be elaborate but then again, they can be. Afterall, you deserve it!

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. ~ Oprah Winfrey

Related: 21 Things to do This Summer

6. REPEAT

How to Make Things Happen

So tell me, what are some things you’d like to see happen in your life? How are you making them happen? Let me know!

Thanks, as always, for reading and commenting and until next time, be blessed and stay safe.

Love & light…xo!

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Lifestyle | 5 Books to Read in 2017

December 13, 2016 by Whitney 2 Comments

Every year I make it known that I want to read more. Sounds good, right? Well, I’m happy to report that this year I took action and read a lot more than usual. Thanks to Audible– no, this post isn’t sponsored – I’ve been able to read several really good books this year. I’ve also gone the old school route and read through a few hardback and paperback books as well. I’ve always been a fan of reading, but this year my urge to read and research was like no other. That brings me to today’s post. I want to share a few books that I think you should add to your 2017 reading list. That said, here are 5 books to read in 2017.

Related: What I’ve Been Reading Lately

Books to Read in 2017

1. Purpose Driven Life, Rick Warren | I’ve read this book twice and each time, I received something different. I plan to read through it again in 2017, but this time my husband will be joining me. If you’re looking for a better understanding of what your purpose is and you can use it to serve others, this book is for you.

2. The Power of I am, Joel Osteen | Packed with uplifting affirmations, an in depth look at some of your favorite characters in the Bible and a little humor, this audio-book has given me life for the past week! I’ll be done this book by the end of the year and I highly suggest you give it a read/listen. Joel has a way of helping you remember that you’re not only God’s gift, but you were born to do GREAT things. Simply put, everything you need to be GREAT is already inside of you – it’s up to us to activate that greatness. This book will help you do just that!

3. The Bible | I’m telling you, this is the best book ever written. It should’ve been #1 on this list, but I digress. This year, I made the decision to commit to strengthening my relationship with the Lord. Thanks to the New King James Version of the Life Application Study Bible, pictured below, I was able to really dive in and dig deep into The Word. I am still and will always be a work in progress, but to see my relationship and faith grow stronger every day is something I’m really proud of.

Related: 5 Things You Need to Survive 2017

Books to Read in 2017

3. The Entrepreneur Roller Coaster, Darren Hardy | I think I listened to this audiobook in less than 8 days. Yea, it was that good! Written by former publisher and editor of Success Magazine, Darren Hardy candidly shares the ups and downs of his entrepreneurial journey. Throughout the book, he provides easy to digest tips on how to navigate through the crazy, scary, yet rewarding world of entrepreneurship. It’s a great audiobook to listen to while riding in the car, as well as during your lunch break. I suggest getting the hard copy of the book too. Not only can you highlight the important messages and write your own notes in the margins, but it’s also a great resource to refer back to through your journey.

5 Books You Need to Read in 2017 #wnjreads

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4. I’m Judging You, Luvvie Ajayi | While reading through this book, I could not stop laughing and nodding my head. This collection of essays, coined the Do-Better Manual, is raw, honest and so necessary…and not to mention hilarious. It’s one of those books that makes you take a look at yourself, your friend-circle, your family, social media and the whole world in general like, “DANG! We really DO need to do better!” If you’re up for reading some humorous and witty life lessons, mixed with a bit of side-eye and harmless judgment, this book is a must read for you in 2017!

5. Rich B*tch, Nicole Lapin | I listened to this audio-book throughout the entire year. If your goal is to get your finances and credit together in the New Year, this book is worth a read. The author gives practical and straightforward advice, in small doses, on how to get your finances in order. She also clears up a lot of credit and finical myths/rumors. I found that very helpful!


So tell me, have you read any of these books? What are some books you think are worth reading in 2017? Let me know!

I can’t wait to read your suggestions! Be sure to let me know if you plan to read any of the books I suggested as well. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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#WNJPlaylist | 5 Motivating Podcasts

June 7, 2016 by Whitney 6 Comments

Aside from my morning playlist I also have a lists of motivating podcasts that I listen to everyday. It’s no secret that I’m always looking for ways to be inspired and uplifted, especially on-the-go. Therefore I often listen to these podcasts during my drive to and from work. I also listen when working at my desk or even while cooking. The 5 motivating podcasts I’m sharing today have without a doubt helped improve my life and business, for the better. Let’s take a look…

* See Also: 5 Podcasts About Career, Spirituality & Lifestyle 

Motivating Podcasts

1. VOUS Church | When I need a quick does of spiritual inspiration, this is my go-to. The messages/sermons are given by Rich and Dawncheré Wilkerson, lead pastors of VOUS Church in Miami, FL. After watching their reality show on Oxygen I was intrigued by how this young Christian couple is able to build (and lead) a church, maintain a healthy and Godly marriage and serve so many. Even if you’re not a (regular) churchgoer, I’m sure there will be inspiring takeaways and practical applications you can take from this podcast.

Listen to my favorite VOUS Church episode.

2. The Lively Show | “Adding a little extra intention to your everyday” with each episode is something the host/founder Jess Lively is very adamant about. With over 3 million downloads, this must-listen podcast is perfect for female entrepreneurs and females in general! Jess interviews a diverse and well-rounded group of women, and men, and offers transparent and relateable advice during her personal “favorites” and Q&A episodes.

Listen to my favorite Lively Show episode.

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Motivating Podcasts

3. Hashtag + Stilettos | Being the Twitter fanatic that I am, I remember finding out about this podcast from one of Mattieologie‘s retweets. Mattie was actually a guest on the podcast that day and of course, I had to click the link to listen. After listening to that interview, I found several other interesting episodes to shuffle through! Founder Sakita Holley covers several topics including career, business and travel. It’s the perfect podcast for on-the-go millennial women looking to succeed in their entrepreneurial endeavors or at their 9-5’s.

Listen to my favorite Hashtag + Stilettos episode.

5 motivating podcasts you should download ASAP. #wnjplaylist

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4. Mostly Mom | I recently started listening to this podcast last month. I was scrolling through Instagram one night, as I often do, and I saw that Tia Mowry had a new podcast episode. “I had no idea she even had a podcast,” I said to myself. I clicked on the link in her bio and saw a few interviews posted; one with actress Chloe Grace Moretz and the other with husband Cory Hardrict. That evening I listened to both and have been hooked ever since! It’s a podcast mixed with celebrity interviews as well as Tia’s take on fashion, social media, life as a mother and wife and other lifestyle topics.

Listen to my favorite Mostly Mom episode.

5. The School of Greatness with Lewis Howes | Recognized as one of the 100 entrepreneurs in the country under 30, Lewis Howes is probably one of my favorite people to follow online. This former pro athlete is a master at delivering well thought out and proven tactics to improve your life and business. He is truly one of the most motivating, passionate and ambitious entrepreneurs I’ve come across in a while. Listening to his interviews from inspiring and well-known people like Amy Purdy, Daymond John, Tim Robbins and Stacy London always puts me in “I can do anything” mood. He’s very well connected with some of the world’s most thought provoking and successful entrepreneurs and influencers. I’m also a huge fan of his 5-minute Friday episodes! What he’s created with The School of Greatness is phenomenal and I’m truly grateful that I found this podcast when I did.

Listen to my favorite Lewis Howes episode.


So tell me, what do you think about my list of motivating podcasts? What are some of your favorite podcasts? Let me know!

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Entrepreneurship | DIY Brand Lab & the Bland2Brand Workshop

September 4, 2015 by Whitney 4 Comments

When I was approached by the lovely Toni Patterson, co-owner of the DIY Brand Lab, I was more than intrigued. After reading about the company and mission and talking to Toni, I knew us meeting was indeed purposeful. Toni and partner Treica Warnholz  share my passion for correctly and purposefully branding yourself, as well as helping other entrepreneurs to the same.

If you haven’t noticed, I’ve been diligently working on upgrading my brand over the past few months. From adding more purposeful content, to launching my #FearlessWomanIam movement, to offering social media consultant services, I’m serious about taking Whitney ‘Nic’ James to the next level. Connecting with the DIY Brand Lab fueled me to continue taking the necessary steps to brand myself and grow my blog as a business. I’m excited to share a brief interview introducing the ladies behind DIY Brand Lab. I hope you all check out their website and attend their upcoming Bland2Brand workshop here in the DMV area on October 20th, perfect for creative entrepreneurs!  

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What’s a typical day for Toni & Trecia?

There’s no typical day. Even though we have combined design experience of 15 years, DIY Brand Lab is a “baby” brand. We work on it every day so that we can let people know we’re here to help and empower entrepreneurs to build their brands. We spend time marketing, making media connections, attending events, managing logistics, etc., so there’s no typical day.

What inspired you to create DIY Brand Lab?

Toni: I’ve been working 1-on-1 with clients for about 5 years through my parent company, Skye Media Group. Clients would come to me and not be prepared to brand. They would have a lot of ideas for developing their brand but no system, process or order in doing so they would be stuck, confused and unmotivated. I founded DIY Brand Lab as an answer to the individual who wants a brand but not sure how to go about it, or is frustrated from trying to brand or rebrand themselves.

For a start-up or current business owner, lacking the skills and budget to fund their brand was a hindrance. I wanted to fulfill a need in the marketplace to empower individuals to brand themselves, create their own website and be able to manage these things. The kick is that we work with the attendees 1-on-1 in a group setting to help them bring their brand vision to life.

I asked Trecia (Warnholz) to join me because I saw the potential of the workshop and knew I needed assistance. Through a Facebook group we’re a part of, she answered this call. Trecia is an expert in her own right working with non-profits, government agencies and other entities for over 10 years in design, branding and technology.

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Toni Patterson & TRECIA WARNHOLZ | DIY Brand Lab Dynamic Duo

What is the mission of DIY Brand Lab?

Our goal is to eliminate the stress of branding and design by working with you directly at your side to teach and guide you through the process. You’ll be learning and doing a lot but this isn’t a stuffy classroom setting. It’s a fun, energetic and positive environment for you to create and, in the end, your brand will reflect the love and attention you’ve put into it (with our help, of course). This is why we’ve developed Bland2Brand so you can stop wasting time and money and get to the core of your brand, craft it and showcase it for the world to see.

What sets you apart from other branding consultants/companies?

We’re not afraid to share the secrets of building a brand and business. We’re not intimidating by allowing people to know what we know and know how we do things. They’re going to use what we teach them on their own business – not steal from us, so to speak.

Who should attend the upcoming DIY Brand Lab Workshop and why should they attend?

They should attend because of the value. Not only will they receive a fresh website, head-shots, branding, and logo but they’ll receive priceless design and technology training from Experts in a 1-on-1 setting as well as build community around their business.

DIY Brand Lab workshop is perfect for anyone who wants to:

Get taken seriously as a power player

Stop running around in circles about how to create your brand & website

Create a brand you can’t wait to show off

Transition from an employee to boss

Connect with other entrepreneurs in a space that promotes fun, life + freedom

Stop procrastinating and start building your empire

One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs?

Invest in yourself. If you can buy expensive material things such as shoes, purses and nights-out, you can afford to invest in your brand.

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Where do you see the company in 5 years?

Transitioning from a local to national company.

How can we keep up with you?

Website // Instagram // Facebook // Twitter // Bland2Brand Workshop

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#FearlessWoman Feature | Mattie James, Influencer & Content Creator

June 24, 2015 by Whitney 9 Comments

Today’s #FearlessWoman feature is someone I often refer to as a BFF in my head. My husband knows this to be true, lol. Mattie James, the Life & Style Influencer and Content Creator behind Mattieologie, has been on my radar since I started my blog journey. Not only do we share the same last name, pretty cool I know, but we also share the same philosophy about life – Live What You Love. Along with her zestful approach to life, Mattie is also a devoted wife, mother and successful entrepreneur.

* Editors Note: Mattie’s website is now mattiejames.com. *

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Mattie shares great tips and life hacks on how to juggle life as a busy mom, as well as how to effortlessly achieve being an on-the-go #FearlessWoman. Good, bad or in between, Mattie is candid about many of her life happenings, yet she still manages to have a sense of mystery about her. It’s really a perfect balance and I believe that mystery is what keeps readers coming back for more. Mattie has inspired me to become a more intentional content creator and a better human being overall; for that I’m forever grateful. Read ahead to find out more about this Atlanta based entrepreneur – I’m sure you’ll be inspired afterwards!


What’s a typical day for Mattie?

I try to get my day started by 6-6:30 a.m. the latest. Depending on whether or not the baby had us up a couple times during the night, I usually hit that goal. I wash my face, drink some water and then pray for about 10-15 minutes. I take the next 5 minutes to journal what I’m grateful for. By then, if Hubs and Babyologie are still sleep, I’ll get 15 minutes of yoga in, shower and have a quick breakfast. By then, an hour has passed and I get the baby ready for her day. By 8, she and her father are out the door. I then answer any emails I need to and start attacking my things to do list. I send my tasks over to my assistant, Krissy, the night before and she has it ready to go in our Evernote chat by 7 a.m. each morning. I’m at my laptop until noon and in the afternoon I like to do active tasks – film video, finish work at a coffee shop, visit cute boutiques in the city for inspiration and potential posts, etc. By 5, I wrap up work and get dinner ready. Once 6:30-7 p.m. hits, I’m in full wife and mommy mode.

What inspired you to create Mattieologie?

Growing up, I was always really into magazines and books. I’m certainly my mother and father’s child. My mom subscribed to many magazines and my dad was never without a book. I loved the photography and layout elements of magazines, and my Dad introduced me to books Think & Grow Rich and How To Read Twice As Fast. As I look back, ingesting that kind of content in my formative years is how I got to creating the kind of content I do for my blog today. I love having flexibility and being able to create my own schedule to maximize the time I have with my family. The goal of creating a blog was always to have my own business.

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Who are your top 3 women inspirations, famous or non-famous, and why?

My mom. She’s like one of the most likeable human beings on the planet. But the powerful thing about my mom is that she’s likeable AND respectable. Not many people can balance those two things. And her commitment to presentation – be it her home or outfit – is always impressive.

My sister, Maya (of MayaElious.com). She’s an entrepreneur herself with a fantastic blog. But it’s cool to see the person you grew up in the same house as, bring the things she said she was going to do to life. There’s power in that. Ultimately, we all want to accomplish the things we say we will.

Sarah Jessica Parker. Obviously, for SATC fan reasons. But as I’ve watched her grow she’s always been incredibly down to earth and delightful. She treads the line of being stylish & funny PERFECTLY. Society has a way of telling a woman that she can only be one of these things – funny or stylish. SJP rewrote the rules and conquers both seamlessly.

One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs? 

Respect the process. I get it. We have AMAZING ideas that we want to get out NOW. Like, yesterday. But we have to respect our idea by respecting the process to bring it to life. I know. Some of us still have 9 to 5 jobs. Some of us are wives. Some of us are moms. But don’t short change yourself for the sake of time. And on the other side of that coin, once you’ve gone through the process of making something good, put it out there. Don’t overthink, just do. Start and get better as you go along. Sometimes the process is that simple. So, respect that.

Don’t overthink, just do! Start & get better as you go along. – @themattiejames

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What is your definition of a #FearlessWoman?

Someone who moves forward with her ideas and plans regardless of fear. Fear is inevitable because we’re human. A woman without fear isn’t impressive. A woman who pulls it off regardless of fear? That’s someone I want to know and learn from. Making things happen takes the kind of strength and courage which makes fear null and void.

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Smarter than I am now. I honestly just want to be doing EXACTLY what I do now on a larger scale, helping more women. An office space would great, too. I’d like to have another baby and take 2-3 family vacations a year without having to worry about rushing home for “work.” Happy, fulfilled, grateful, active – that’s exactly where I see myself.

How can we keep you with you?

Blog // Instagram // Twitter // Facebook // YouTube

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#FearlessWoman Feature | Marie of The Curvy Fashionista

March 31, 2015 by Whitney 4 Comments

Today is the last day of my #FearlessWoman series. It’s been such a joy introducing you to 9 fearless, dynamic and inspirational women who have and continue to inspire me daily. My final feature is none other than the plus size blogging diva and mogul in the making, Marie Denee.

Founder of The Curvy Fashionista, this Atlanta based full-time blogger is a go-getter, a patient mentor, and genuinely sweet person. Marie is a girl’s girl and strongly believes in girl power and women empowerment. She wants to see us all win! Her authenticity, drive, and confidence serves as inspiration to many and it’s my honor to share her interview today. Enjoy and thank you for embracing this series in honor of Women’s History Month.

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What’s a typical day for Marie?

Being a full time blogger is nowhere near as glam as it may seem! LOL Most of the time, I am at home, in my scarf, with some type of maxi dress on! Bra definitely off! I am glued to my desk, researching, writing, strategizing, and plotting! There is hardly any off time for me! Although I am trying to get better at leaving the office before 7 pm! LOL I try!

But my day? I am usually (or I do try) to be up by 7 a.m. and checking my posts to see if it went live as scheduled, go into promo mode, then I check my emails! I probably have a few calls scheduled for the day. From there it is a toss up! Depending on what is trending on social, what I have planned for the week, each day is a new one! I kind of have learned to love that.

What inspired you to create The Curvy Fashionista?

It was actually random. I started it with a completely different goal in mind. I just finished my MBA in Marketing and just KNEW I was going to have a physical store and work it out! Well, with various turns of events, I launched a very short lived online store, and then my blog started to take off! Over the years, it has evolved into its own, and I have been along for the ride! Talk about a walk of faith. When I lost my job, I dove head first into growing it, not knowing where it would lead me… from there, it has become a business, an entity, a community, a destination! I am grateful for this!

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Who are your top 3 women inspirations, famous or non famous, and why?

Three? You know, this is hard to answer, only because I pull inspiration from sooo many women- known and unknown, family and friends, mentors and new women on the scene! I would have to say that what they all have in common is moxie, drive, and some form of strength and the audacity to chase their dreams or persevere through life’s challenges! THIS is what inspires and drives me. I love networking and supporting other women- it is sooo awesome and inspiring to find women who make it work! They motivate me to do the same!

One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs? 

Find your own path/lane/purpose and do not look to others to compare, check for, or to imitate. We all have our own path, purpose, and walk. We also do not know what they are dealing with and have struggled through to get to where they are. Nor does anyone know YOUR story. While things may look ro seem to be soooo fabulous on the outside, they could be dealing with things and keeping a brave face. Also, checking for others is a waste of time and energy that you can be using to build your own dream and empire! When you learn this, supporting others, helping others, and mentoring others comes easily and without pause!

Marie Denee The Curvy Fashionista

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

You know what? I have a few ideas and goals around that, but God willing, I see myself and my brand growing to levels I have dreamt. I see my personal love life develop into something tangible and exciting! I have buried and busied myself in my work that now, I am ready for love and life and fun, in different ways. So honestly, that is something I find myself thinking about a lot! Who knows where the brand will be! I have plans, but I have learned that when man plans, God laughs… so who knows! LOL.

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#FearlessWoman Feature | Viki of Be Victorious Prep & The Bravado

March 30, 2015 by Whitney 6 Comments

Today’s #FearlessWoman feature is a dear friend. With 12 years of pageant experience, Victory Mohamed, also known as Viki, is one of the most fearless, hard working women I know. While her expertise is in the pageant industry, Viki also has a wealth of knowledge on several topics like public relations, current events, fashion and entrepreneurship. She’s anything but one dimensional and that is one of the many qualities I love about her.

I’ve had the pleasure of working with this former Miss Baltimore one-on-one on several occasions. Watching her transform the lives of so many young girls, including my younger sister, has truly been a blessing. A passionate, family oriented and strong entrepreneurs, it’s my pleasure to introduce you all to her today. Enjoy her interview below and be inspired!

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What’s a typical day for Viki?

I typically try to start each day with a small workout and I take a quick peek at my schedule to make sure I am aware of what is coming up for the day. Before getting to the coaching studio, I spend a few hours reviewing emails and doing a lot of work for clients (this could be searching for appearances for them, reviewing paperwork, drafting speeches etc). Once at the studio, I can spend 4-8 hours with clients, one-on-one in personal sessions. Afterwards, you can bet that I rush home to spend a few hours with my husband and family…but then it is back to the laptop to do more research, client work, blogging, and whatever else it takes to keep my brand rolling. Once I’m ready to shut down for the evening, I try to clear my mind by creating a checklist of things to do the next day because if I don’t, I will lay in bed all night thinking about it!

What inspired you to create Be Victorious Prep & The Bravado?

I was inspired to create Be Victorious Prep because I found that while I was improving each year in pageants, my peers were not. I was breaking into the top ten, then the top 5, and then winning, while others remained lost and had no guidance to move ahead. I wanted to share what I had learned over the years while competing, so I just started dropping kind words of advice…and the girls started winning. After a few girls, I realized that ‘hey, I might be good at this’! Then I started to put things together on my own – it was my success in pageants that taught me discipline, the value of hard work, and the power of focus, so I translated that into a business model: I wanted girls to be victorious in whatever they set their mind to, pageants or not – I wanted to help girls, just like myself, be victorious in everything they do. Soon after, I started branding myself and boom, here we are in 2015 with over 60 wins to the Be Victorious name.

Once I started to become involved in the coaching process, girls started to ask me for wardrobe advice. This advice included what they should wear to orientation to what they should wear in competition. I quickly realized that instead of having them shop on their own (and bring back the craziest things that I just made them return anyway), I would set up my own shop and provide exactly what was competition worthy and attention getting (in a positive way). My siblings and I now provide competition clothing, from gowns to suits to jewelry, and everyday boutique wear, for appearances, girls night out, and more (at The Bravado). Most specifically, I was inspired by the idea that if I wanted the girls to be victorious in everything they do, they had to look good doing it – dressing for success soon became part of our life.

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Who are your top 3 women inspirations, famous or non-famous, and why?

Mom: I think my mom is a giant. She came to this country when she was 17 and she quickly decided to work on losing her accent. She was driven to move her family forward – when her brothers and father were buying homes and apartments to fix and sell/rent, she was the one going to the library, asking questions, working to figure out how to do paperwork legally, traveling to courthouses and handling all official family matters, all before she was 21. To me, she is a prime example of ‘if you want something badly enough, you need to work hard and get it done’. From a very young age she taught me to set goals, weigh the pros and cons, make a list of how I was going to accomplish that goal and to work non-stop until I succeed. She is my rock, my soul, and the very fiber of my being.

Cheryl Wood: Words cannot express how Cheryl has influenced my life. I first met Cheryl when I had literally just started my entrepreneurial journey…and she was sort of starting her own journey with a tee shirt company as well. She spoke with such conviction about entrepreneurship, finding your passion and working it, and about the power of believing in yourself. She also talked about balancing motherhood with her dreams; something I was definitely thinking about for the future. She soon invited me to participate in a magazine with her and on a radio show with her – for once, my age did not matter to someone. She saw me for my work, my passion, and my abilities. She encouraged to me to think bigger and to make things happen. She probably doesn’t know it, but her charisma, passion, and social media posts invigorate me everyday!

Stephanie McMahon: For as long as I can remember, I’ve been a WWE wrestling fan. While this is not typical of a “pageant girl”, I have always admired how Stephanie approached being a woman in a man’s world. I’ve also admired that she allows her work to speak for itself – just because her parents own the company did not mean that she would not have to get a degree and work her way up in the company. It was her hard work and creative abilities that took the company from a household name here in the US and Canada to an international household name and respected brand. More specifically, she inspires me because of her ability to balance everything so well – she’s a mom, an entrepreneur, a wife, a TV villain and more; I find myself admiring her because I want to find the same balance in my own life and find the same success as well. She has created opportunities for herself and her company where many others did not see fit and thus, she has helped propel her company forward as a Special Olympics Ambassador, an anti-bullying organization, a pro-literacy organization and more. I admire her work, values, and ability to balance it all. She is my guide when people say “this is not your place” or “I do not see how this can fit”; she made it happen and so can I.

One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs? 

You could be the youngest in the room, you could be the only woman in the room – it does not matter if you are prepared, have passion, and have the discipline to see something through. Work hard and never let anyone tell you that you cannot do something because you are a woman. Womanpower is indeed an amazing thing, never forget that. And please, when you recognize your own womanpower, do not take too long to turn around and empower others.

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Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

(Yikes…) I want to be the Executive Director of my own International Empowerment Academy. I want to empower women (and men) around the world to find their passions, to live it every single day, and to turn around and empower others as soon and as often as they can. I want to share the message of ‘be victorious in everything you do’ around the world because I believe that no one should limit themselves. I believe that no one should let what people say define them – you create your own definition of success, power, prestige, life…and being victorious. So…in five years, I expect to be well on the path of empowering others worldwide!

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#FearlessWoman Feature | Jhéanell of Jolie Bloom & Belle Jhéanell

March 27, 2015 by Whitney 7 Comments

I’m always inspired by working women who are also mothers and wives. Juggling it all is not easy, but a #FearlessWoman gets it done! Jhéanell Adams is the creator of Jolie Bloom, an eco-luxe brand specializing in hand crafted beauty products that are simply divine! I’ve tried the Caribbean Coconut Body Scrub (review coming soon) and immediately fell in love! This working Mom is also the creative blogger behind Belle Jhéanell. 

With a heart of gold, a strong business mind and a passion for beuaty, Jhéanell is definitely an entrepreneur on the rise. Enjoy her interview below and be inspired! 

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What’s a typical day for Jhéanell?

Morning: A typical day starts with me seeing my sister off to school and then trying to get as much work done as possible before my son wakes up. This usually consists of responding to emails, sending out tracking numbers or finishing up a blog post that I may have started the night before. Once my son is up, we shower, eat breakfast and usually he wants to play, cuddle or have me read books to him.

Afternoon: One a good day he’ll take his afternoon nap and I’ll try to get some blogging done or make products to fulfill orders for Jolie Bloom. If he doesn’t take a nap, I give him about an hour of tv time while I continue to work. Afterwards we do some learning activities and do a few educational sing a longs.

Late afternoon/Early Evening:  I leave to get my sister from school and drop Jolie Bloom packages off at the post office for delivery that have been packed the night before. If I happen to have a cute outfit, I’ll also ask my sister to photograph it for me during this time of the day for a Lookbook post on Belle Jheanell.com

Evening: Once we’re back home, I start dinner and check my sisters homework before we sit down to eat as a family. However, if I have a shift at my part time job, I make dinner and then run out for a couple hours.

Night: Once I return from work, my husband and I stay up packing boxes in preparation for me to ship them the following afternoon. If we don’t have any orders, I do research for upcoming blog posts before getting some “me time” (catching up on my favorite shows) after everyone goes to bed.

 What inspired you to create Belle Jhéanell & Jolie Bloom?

I originally started blogging back in 2008 as a way to organize my wedding inspirations (pre-Pinterest days) and journal through the process. Once my wedding was over, I continued to use the space to document my life. Having been blogging for most of my adulthood,  I’ve shared many things from the preparation of my wedding, to life as a newlywed and my excitement after learning that I was going to be a mother for the first time.

Unfortunately, my daughter was born prematurely and passed away shortly thereafter. It was the hardest time of my life and through sharing my experience on my blog, I was able to gain a great addition to my already amazing support system. Thankfully, I went on to had my son but I felt as though my site had become somber as I’d been writing through my grief. I eventually decided to rebrand it as Belle Jheanell where I regularly share outfit posts as well as my knowledge of beauty and passion for natural living.

After gaining back my confidence and wanting to do something meaningful to honor my daughters short life, I then created Jolie Bloom which is a brand of eco luxury personal care products. Having gone through such a traumatic experience, I have to say that it feels amazing that so many people know Jolie’s story and understand how huge of a role she plays in my life although she’s not physically with us any longer.

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Who are your top 3 women inspirations, famous or non-famous, and why?

My top 3 women inspirations are my mother, Oprah Winfrey and Myleik Teele. All of these women have been knocked down many times but have made the choice over and over to keep going.

My mother was the person who inspired me to become an entrepreneur after witnessing her from her own business during the earlier part of my childhood. She believes in me more than I believe in myself at time and is such a cheerleader for Jolie Bloom.

Oprah is self explanatory but the fact that a poor little girl from Mississippi has built such an a billionaire dollar empire is nothing short of incredible.

Myleik’s work ethic is unlike anything I’ve seen in a while. Having met her when Curlbox was only two months old and seeing where it is now is mind blowing!

One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs? 

“Leap and a net will appear”, it’s my favorite quote by John Burroughs . You don’t have to have every single detail in place to start your business. Do you research, get started and you’ll be surprised how things start to line up.

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Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

In 5 years I imagine that Jolie Bloom would have grown substantially and will be housed in headquarter facility containing our office, production and shipping space. I’d love to be a couple hundred retail stores around the world by then. My dream ever since I was a little girl has been to be an author, so I’d love to have at least two books published within the next 5 years. I haven’t shared this publicly as yet, but I’m currently working on my first children’s book.

As for Belle Jheanell, I still imagine that I’ll have it as a creative outlet and journal. Most importantly, I love that people go back in my archives and are able to see my growth and how I decided to use my pain to fuel my passions and help others.

In my personal life, I’d love to have another child or two by then. Ultimately, I see myself continuing to be family oriented while building my empire and growing even closer to God.

Keep Up With Jhéanell

Blog // Jolie Bloom // Instagram // Twitter

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