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5 Reasons You Don’t Have Success While Thrift Shopping

August 13, 2015 by Whitney Leave a Comment

Thrift shopping is so much fun, but it can be a ~~l o n g~~ and sometimes unsuccessful process. Why? I know 5 reason you don’t have successful thrift shopping trips, for sure. Because I want you (all) to be successful thrifters, let’s get right to it!

5 reasons you’re not successful when thrifting. #thriftwithnic

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1. You’re not being patient. Patience is the #1 thing you need to have a successful thrifting trip. Rushing to find that perfect item just won’t cut it. Set aside a certain time for the thrift trip, take your time and stroll down each and every aisle. Look on all the racks, try things on, snap pics, and enjoy the process.

2. You’re staying in one section. I like to call myself a section hopper. I constantly hop from one section to the next while thrifting. The men’s section is actually one of my favorite places to shop for over-sized sweaters and button ups. Another section to check out is lingerie. You can find some AMAZING kimono-like pieces for every day styling.

3. You’re not using your imagination. There are times when I see an item and think, “what the heck can I do with this??” Use your imagination and think outside the box. A vintage belt that’s too small to fit your waist is the perfect item to wear as a necklace. 😉

4. You’re not thrifting on the right days. Most thrift stores have sale/discount days. Be sure to ask the associates when those days are and make a mental note. They may even have a flyer or card with that information listed. Grab one and keep it in your wallet or car for future reference.

5. You don’t have the right attitude/mindset. When thrifting, BE POSITIVE and BE OPEN! It may take a few trips to really get the hang of it, but once you got it you’re good. Be positive while shopping and open to the possibilities of finding unique (and sometimes one of a kind) items.

Thrift shop with a purpose and you’ll have a much more enjoyable experience! #thriftithnic

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So tell me, do you have successful thrift shopping trips? What are some tips to make thrifting easier and more enjoyable? Let me know!

As always, thanks for dropping by today! I have a thrifting cheat sheet I’d like to send you so be sure to sign up here. Also, there will be a #ThriftWithNic announcement coming soon. Be on the look out for that! Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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#FearlessWoman Feature | Kéla Walker of Kela’s Kloset

August 12, 2015 by Whitney 2 Comments

There are some people I instantly gravitate to online and usually, it’s because of their undeniably amazing personalty. That’s one of the many reasons I started following New York based style authority and TV Host, Kéla Walker, on Instagram and Twitter (and now Snapchat). This feisty, intelligent and delightful New Yorker is a joy to keep up with via social media. She produces valuable and timely (style and beauty) content on her blog Kela’s Kloset, shares great fashion and real life insight on Twitter, and invites us into her day-to-day life over on Snapchat. She’s the quintessential fashionista who’s down-to-earth and possesses real human qualities.

This #FearlessWoman is also an award winning TV Host and producer and can often be seen on the side of a red carpet, chatting with the hottest celebs about style, fashion, and life in general. I’m very inspired by the positive and go-getter outlook Kéla has on life. Always uplifting and purposefully going after her dreams, Kéla Walker is certainly a #FearlessWoman to watch. Enjoy her interview and be sure to keep up with her on social media!

A #FearlessWoman is a one who moves forth and braves the elements. – @kelawalker

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What’s a typical day for Kéla?

I work in media so every day is different for me. One day I’m at my desk researching or producing elements for a segment. The next, I’m on location hosting said segment and then the day after that I’m editing the segment and crafting it into something for air. That’s during the day. At night, I’m likely covering some cool event for a major television outlet/ network (often up to three nights a week) or on the flip side I’m attending an awesome event which is always fun. Along the way I get dressed and document it all on KelasKloset.com

What inspired you to create Kéla’s Kloset?

A bunch of things inspired me to start Kelaskloset.com. For one, I didn’t see anyone who looked like me AND spoke to my style aesthetic in the blogosphere. I was already looking for a new challenge and something to inspire me so I thought why not try it. Also, I was bored with myself at the time and had a “kloset”‘full of clothes I wasn’t wearing because I wasn’t inspired in any way. Kéla’s Kloset ended up being just the jolt I needed to reinvigorate, giving myself and my “Kloset” a new sense of purpose.

Who are your top 3 women inspirations, famous or non-famous, and why?

My mom, Johanne Walker. Duh. I watched her consistently turn water into wine, making the impossible, possible. She’s the ultimate hustler and provided a great blueprint for my life.

Michelle Obama She’s such an awe- inspiring First Lady, on so many levels. She a shining example of how much black girls that rock turn into black women who rock.

Joslyn Walker- my little sister. Who I have admired since she was a toddler (I’m 11 years her senior). It sounds strange but ever since I can remember she has always marched to the beat of her own drum. She doesn’t care what you think of her or what the consensus is, she is unapologetically herself. That’s so awesome to me, because I know a lot of grown women who still can’t do that.

One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs?

Don’t knit pick your dreams and goals or get over occupied with perfection. Move forth in action. Learn and grow as you move and you’re sure to arrive at a place bigger than you ever dreamed. Also it’s so cliche but JUST DO IT and stop waiting on the right time. There’s no better time than the present.

What is your definition of a #FearlessWoman?

A #FearlessWoman is a one who moves forth and braves the elements (good or bad) to accomplish the goal at hand. That’s not to say she’s not scared or completely without fear but it’s will not deter her from moving forwarding and accomplishing said goal.

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Happy. I don’t like to do that whole 5 year 10 year thing. Of course I have goals and visions but those are my plans which are no comparison to the ones God has for me. I learned a long time ago his are better so I like to say I see myself happy in 5 years because ultimate that’s all that really matters. If a few million people know my name by then and can watch me on national television, I’ll take that too.

7. How can we keep up with you?

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Happy Birthday to Me + 50 Life Goals

August 11, 2015 by Whitney 19 Comments

I’m so grateful for another year of life and while I have many emotions about entering the last year of my 20’s, I’m truly excited about what this year has in store. This year I’ve decided to create and share my 7-year Life Goals List, which is inspired by, Maya Elious. I like to put my goals and aspirations in writing because I find that doing so helps keep me accountable. When I saw that Maya created her Life Goals List, I was intrigued. I knew that I had to create one, with my own twist, for my next birthday. That said, here are my 50 Life Goals List to achieve in 7 years.

Everyone should create a Life Goal List. Have you?

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LIFE + EXPERIENCE

Continue Building a Solid Relationship with God – IN THE PROCESS & MAKING PROGRESS
Join Bridgeway Community Church – IN THE PROCESS
- Join & Commit to a Ministry
Expand whitneynicjames.com & Continue to Publish Consistent, Valuable and Useful Content
Continue to Grow a Successful (and Lucrative) Business that Helps & Motivates Women
Complete My Undergraduate Degree & Receive my Master’s
Continue to Invest in my Entrepreneurship Endeavors
- purchase a MacBook – DONE (Spring 2017)
- new camera & lens – DONE (Spring2016)
- find a necessary coach/enroll in necessary classes
Attend Mega Fest (TX)
Write & Publish My 1st Book
Interview & Post Interviews of at least 50 (More) Inspirational & Fearless Women
Host a FWIAM Event – DONE (Spring 2017)
Create the FWIAM Website (or Landing Page) – DONE (Summer 2017)
Host a #WNJStyle Event
Host a Vision Board Event – DONE (Fall 2017)
Complete Another #ThriftwithNic Event/or Tour
Meet Myleik Teele – DONE (Fall 2019)
Meet T.D. Jakes – DONE
Meet Mattie and Maya – DONE
Travel to London & Maldives
Travel to an Island I’ve Never Visited – DONE (Punta Cana Summer 2017)
Travel to LA – DONE (Summer 2018)
Receive my Social Media Marketing Certification – DONE (March 2016)
Complete 1 Book a Month – DONE (Started reading 3 books a month in January 2017)
Find a Charity to Commit & Donate to Regularly
- Prostate Cancer
- Generosity Global – DONE (Supporting since 2016)

FINANCIAL + BUSINESS

Pay Off & Clear My Credit Report
- Student Loan(s)
- Credit Card Debt(s)
Learn About Stocks & Investing
Buy Stock
- Google
- Facebook
- Apple
Make $1,000 – DONE (Summer 2017)
Make $5,000
Save $3,000 – (DONE in 2020)
Create Thrifting 101 Seminars/Courses
Create at least Streams of Income – DONE (Summer 2017 – WNJ, FWIAM, Social Media Management & eBay)
Create a Nonprofit Organization
Purchase FWIAM Domain Name (and Social Media Handles) – DONE

FAMILY

Have at Least 1 Healthy Child
Own a Home in Howard County
- Preferably Columbia, MD or Fulton, MD
Take 2 Vacations a Year (Road-trip, Cruise, or by Plane)
Send my Parents on a Trip
Send my Grandmother on a Trip
Pay for Taylor’s Sweet 16 Birthday Party
Save “x” Amount for Taylor’s 20th Birthday

HEALTH

Create a Consistent Workout Routine – DONE (Created & Started in July 2016)
Practice Yoga Consistently
Get Back to Swimming & Pole Dancing Classes
Complete 7-Day Fast (Fruit, Veggies, Water & Fish Only)
Complete 7-Day Day Vegetarian Challenge
Start Running – DONE (Started July 2016)
Enroll & Complete Boxing Class
Train for a 5K Race
Get Regular Massages & Facials – DONE (Started January 2016)
Drink 1 Gallon of Water a Day – DONE (Started Spring 2017)

So tell me, what do you think about my 7-year life goals? What are some of your 7-year life goals? Let me know!

For months I’ve been determined to create a better life for myself and my family. In doing this I’ve vowed to live a life of purpose and to live life with intention. I no longer want to wait until I’m 30 to start going after certain goals. As always, thanks for reading. Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Persona; Style | Year 28 Personal Style Evolution + My Go-To Shopping Stores & Sites

August 10, 2015 by Whitney 23 Comments

As my 29th birthday approaches ~~tomorrow~~ I thought it’d be fun to take a look back at my personal style evolution over the year. When I turned 28, I promised myself to get in tune with my personal style. My goal was to find and wear clothing that was practical, in style, comfortable and chic. Also if the clothes made me feel good, I was sold! I gravitated towards black and white, neutrals and prints. I also made sure my accessory game was on fleek, LOL!

I’ve even ventured into a few new stores and have finally complied a list of my go-to stores/sites for clothing, accessories and shoes:

Clothing

Nordstrom & Nordstrom Rack
Thrift Stores
Marshall’s, TJ Maxx & Ross
Lord & Taylor
Macy’s

Accessories / Jewelry

Aldo Accessories
H&M
eBay
Thrift Stores
Marshall’s & TJ Maxx

Shoes

Nordstrom Rack
DSW
Nine West (Outlet)
Macy’s (Sales Rack)
Lord & Taylor

A quick list of affordable go-to stores for clothing, shoes and accessories. #wnjstyle

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Black & White + Statement Necklace

Floral Pants: Ralph Lauren, Lord & Taylor // Bodysuit: F21 // Vest: Marshall’s // Backpack: TJ Maxx

While these outfits are just a few examples of what I wore this year, they’re some of my favorite outfits worn, on the blog or shown on Instagram, during my 28th year. I’m very comfortable with my personal style choices and personal style growth. It’s been a fun year and I can’t wait to see where Year 29 takes my style!

So tell me, what do you think about my personal style evolution this year? Let me know!

Thanks for stopping by today and don’t forget to link your recent outfit to today’s Personal Style Linkup. Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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#WNJInspired | Lessons Learned from Devon Franklin at the Merge Tour 2015 in Baltimore, MD

August 5, 2015 by Whitney 2 Comments

This past weekend I attend the Merge Tour 2015 at Empowerment Temple in my hometown Baltimore, Maryland. The summit/symposium was created by producer and executive, Dr. Holly Carter. According to it’s mission statement, THE MERGE was created to educate, empower and inspire creative men and women of faith to do business in entertainment, by providing a platform to network, partner, and learn from leading entertainers and industry executives.

Actress & Entertainer | LisaRaye McCoy

After attending their Baltimore tour stop, I can honestly say their mission was indeed accomplished! I was able to hear entertainers and entertainment executives LaurieAnna Gibson, Mikki Taylor, Phil Thorton, Kelly Griffin, Lisa Raye, and DeVon Franklin. I learned so much from each speaker and a lot was confirmed about my purpose and plan. My husband was my photographer that day and he too gained a wealth of knowledge and inspiration from the event.

While all the speakers were amazing, DeVon Franklin’s message resonated with us the most. He spoke on merging and being produced by faith (also the title of his latest book). Here’s a recap, shared on Periscope first then uploaded on Youtube, of the 3 lessons we learned form the summit, but more specifically from DeVon Franklin.

GREAT recap from @DeVonFranklin on how to succeed in life and business.

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In case you missed any of the Merge Tour 2015 lessons/takeaways from DeVon Franklin, here are the 3 points mentioned in the video above:

1. Create and Publish Purposeful Content

2. Always Be Prepared

3. Be Ready to Merge/Move

So tell me, is the Merge Tour/Summit an event you would be interested in attending? What do you think about the lessons we learned? Let me know below!

Darrius and I are beyond thrilled and blessed that sharing this broadcast on Periscope inspired so many people. That’s the main reason I wanted to share those lessons and our Merge Tour 2015 experience here on WNJ (and via Twitter and Instagram).

At the end of the day it’s not about me or us; it’s about connecting with you all on an uplifting and inspiring level. Thank you for reading and watching and feel free to share this video/post with others. Spread the positivity! Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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WNJ Beauty | Beauty Tips from Your Favorite Style & Beauty Bloggers

August 4, 2015 by Whitney 15 Comments

I always find summertime beauty tips and tricks helpful. I often look forward to the beauty issue of certain magazine just so I can read about the latest products, tips and beauty findings. I thought it’d be fun to invite 9 of my favorite style and beauty bloggers to share some of their summer beauty tips and tricks with you, along with a few tips from me too.

One thing we all have in common, we follow some kind of daily beauty regimen – it’s a must! I’m sure you’ve heard of most, if not all, of these fabulous ladies from somewhere on the internet. You may have even read about them here on WNJ. Either way, you’re in for a real treat; check it out!

Q: WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE BEAUTY TIP LEARNED IN YOUR 20’s, 30’s & 40’s?

Whitney (WJ) – In my late 20’s I understand the importance of washing my face, every night, before bed. My mother taught me this early on, and she was right! She also taught me not to use/put everything on my face; read labels and know what works for my skin type.

Cheryl (CV) – I’m 29 so I haven’t gone through all the beauty tips for various age ranges, but I can say that a good tip would be to continue to moisturize and wear sunscreen. Great makeup starts with great skin care!

Alison (AL) – Now that I’m in my 40’s, exfoliation is my new best friend. Cells don’t turn over like they used to when I was younger, so my skin tends to look dull. I exfoliate twice a week with St. Ives Apricot scrub to keep my skin glowing.

Adrienne (AR) – Summertime heat and/or working out at the gym can cause body breakouts on your back, shoulders, and chest. Using a body wash that contains Salicylic Acid keeps my body breakout-free.

Must read beauty tips for your 20’s, 30’s and 40’s! #wnjbeauty

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Chakayla (CT) – Less is MORE! I have finally become comfortable with sporting natural makeup or no makeup at all. I am totally channeling my inner Parisian.

Antionette (AB) – In my 30’s, I started having babies, so exercise was very important for me to get my body back in shape. However, I should have started exercising earlier because unfortunately, it wasn’t enough. My baby is now 19 and I am still carrying “baby fat”. Eating right and exercising before, during and after pregnancy is vital and don’t buy into that “eating for two” jazz because it will be harder to take the weight off afterward.

Glenda (GH) – Now in my late 40s, I have discovered to embrace my natural beauty. I’m free from hair dyes and I use very little makeup. The less I place on my skin and hair, the better it feels and looks. Also, because I exercise 4 to 5 times per week, I drink lots of water and herbal teas. In my 40s, I learned to embrace my natural beauty.

Molly (MS) – My FAVORITE beauty tip is to fill in your EYEBROWS and put on mascara! Your eyebrows and eyelashes are absolutely the best way to really make your face POP and seem more awake!

Ashley (AC) –My favorite beauty tip I recently learned is the power of face serum. Serum not only clears up dark marks on your face, but it can add an amazing glow and some formulas even decrease wrinkles.

Vivi (VN) – A great beauty tip I learned in my 20’s and 30’s is to use lukewarm water (leaning towards cold) to wash your face and cool water to rinse. Helps with the skin elasticity.

Beauty tips to get you ready for summertime! #wnjbeauty

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Q: FAVORITE BEAUTY & STYLE MAGAZINE?

VN – In Style Magazine.

AR – Lucky Magazine.

AB – Essence and In Style are my favorite beauty and style magazine.

GH – For beauty, Darling Magazine because it talks about beauty apart from vanity. For style, I’m beginning to really enjoy Porter Magazine.

WJ – Essence for beauty and style because the magazine represents women of color, all shades, complexions and sizes, and showcases us in a positive and beautiful light.

Q: FAVORITE BEAUTY ICON & WHY? (blogger, celeb, etc.)

CV – Although I focus more on fashion and style, when it comes to beauty, I would have to say that Mila Kunis always brings it — from her makeup to her hair. And Lupita Nyong’o knows how to work her beautiful skin as well.

AC – My mother is always the woman I look to when it comes to beauty. Everyone always guesses that my mother is at least 20 years younger than she actually is because of her clear skin and little to no wrinkles. She taught me from the time I was a child to drink water and wash your face day and night.

MS – Audrey Hepburn. She was always full of class and style and looked beautiful with OR without makeup!

Solange Knowles is the queen of a beautiful and natural face! – @chakaylajtaylor

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CT – Solange Knowles! She totally understands that her face and skin are a canvas for her amazing ensembles. She is the queen a beautiful, natural face.

AL – Kate Middleton, she’s such a natural, classic beauty.

WJ – Besides my mother and grandmother, I’d have to say Jennifer Lopez. Her skin is supple, always glows, and she doesn’t wear a boat load of makeup. Her skin looks gorgeous and healthy, with out without makeup.

Q: HOW CAN WE KEEP UP WITH YOU LADIES?

Alison – Blog // Instagram // Twitter

Glenda – Blog // Instagram // Twitter

Ashley – Blog // Instagram //Twitter

Chakayla – Blog // Instagram // Twitter

Vivi – Blog // Instagram / Twitter

Molly – Blog // Instagram // Twitter

Cheryl – Blog // Instagram // Twitter

Adrienne – Blog // Instagram // Twitter

Antionette – Blog // Instagram // Twitter

So tell me, what are some of your favorite beauty tips and tricks? Comment below and share with us!

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Personal Style | Elements of a Cohesive Personal Style

August 3, 2015 by Whitney 33 Comments

I had a lot of fun with my personal style in July! From the curly hair to the several prints and patterns I wore, I found myself excited everyday to get up and dressed in the mornings. I also had fun styling different accessories and lengths, like the short black and white tunic dress. Personal style in July was definitely fun and a bit experimental for me, so check out 4 of my favorite outfits!

Comfy Travel Style // Thrifted Tunic

As I’ve said several times before, my goal is to have a #CasualSummer. I think I’ve been on the right track when it comes to being casual and chic in my personal style choices. The clothes I’ve been purchasing and styling have 3 things in common:

1. Comfortability

2. Wearability

3. Versatility

Style should be comfortable because you’re going to wear these clothes all day, everyday. Being comfortable and able to move in any garment is key. Wearability is also important because you want to purchase clothes that you’re able to wear often. If the material is a soft cotton and has some stretch, we’re good! Versatile clothing is the last piece to the puzzle. I’ve preached this message several times, but I’m passionate about stressing the importance of versatile clothing to women shoppers. My rule of thumb is if you can wear a garment at least 3 times, it’s a smart and versatile purchase.

Personal Style Must Haves: Comfortability, Wearability & Versatility #wnjstyle

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Black & White Tunic // Nordstrom Rack Kimono

There have been several bloggers who’ve linked up and I’m so grateful for your participation! 2 ladies in particular have really caught my eye throughout the month of July. These ladies below definitely embrace the 3 elements (mentioned above) of a cohesive and stylish personal style.

Cheryl of Oh to be a Muse has been one of my favorite style bloggers for such a long time. She too has a good handle on personal style and what clothing works for her lifestyle and body type. I love it! Lastly, Monica of GlamVolution has her personal style down to a science. She dresses with such ease and clarity and her outfits are always inspiring. I love her boho chic and feminine style.

Cheryl | Oh to be a Muse

Monica | GlamVolution

So tell me, what do you think about my Personal Style in July? Do you follow any of these style bloggers who link up on Monday’s? Let me know!

Thanks for stopping by today and until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Personal Style | Why You Need Kimonos in Your Wardrobe

July 30, 2015 by Whitney 13 Comments

Kimonos have been a wardrobe staple for me since last year. I’ve always been a fan of styling them, but over the last year I’ve been gravitating towards them more and more. When I’m out shopping that’s the first thing I search for – they’re such a necessary wardrobe addition. So of course, I must share the 5 reasons why you need kimonos in your wardrobe.

1. Versatility. There are several variations of the kimono trend and that’s a good thing. It keeps the trend versatile and makes it simple for you to find a style that works for your aesthetic. Weather full length, mid length or cardigan style, kimonos are extremely versatile; there’s a perfect style for every shopper.

2. Easy to Style & Wear. If you don’t know what to add to an OOTD like a maxi dress, throw on a kimono! Want to add a little something over a tank top and jeans look? Pick a kimono! They’re the easiest garments to style and wear.

5 reasons you need to add kimonos to your wardrobe. #wnjstyle

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Kimono: Marshall’s // Bodysuit: F21 // Flats: Steve Madden (Similar) // Necklace: Nordstrom Rack

3. Affordability. Oftentimes I find my favorite kimonos at the thrift store, for less than $10! Even if they’re not thrifted, more often than not kimonos aren’t that expensive. And they’re also on sale often at stores like TJ Maxx, Nordstrom Rack and Asos.

4. Timeless. I don’t think the kimono trend will go out of style anytime soon. Their classic and timeless wardrobe staples; perfect for any wardrobe and every season.

5. Comfort. If you’ve been a WNJ reader for awhile, you know I’m all about looking stylish and being comfortable. Kimonos are the perfect garment for comfort because they’re usually lightweight and flowy. The garment moves with you and the various prints and colors help amp up your personal style instantly!

Kimono: TJ Maxx // Backpack: TJ Maxx (Another Option) // Sunnies: H&M (Same)

So tell me, are you a fan of wearing kimonos? How many do you own? Let me know!

Thanks for stopping by and I hope you’ve been inspired to purchase a few more kimonos for the season and upcoming seasons. If you signed up for my newsletter, THANK YOU – I hope you enjoyed the free info I sent over. Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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