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Lifestyle | Building Confidence & Wearing Leopard Print Pants

March 5, 2019 by Whitney 7 Comments

For the past few months, I’ve been working on building confidence in certain areas of my life. I’ve added different colors, textures, and brands to my wardrobe, become more vocal about topics I’m passionate about and I’ve said “YES” to certain opportunities I’d normally say no to. There’s less second-guessing, and very little discussion with outside people before I make a decision.

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I also find myself less timid when asked to try something new. As a result, I’m genuinely more happy, less stressed, and more content than I’ve been in a while. I’m learning to trust my gut, have faith in my capabilities, and most importantly, I’m learning to trust and recognize the voice of God.

Building Confidence - Leopard Print Outfit

Denim: Lane Bryant (same) // Sweater: Nordstrom Rack (similar) // Shoes: Converse (same)

“Confidence is an inside job: it’s about how you feel about yourself regardless of what anyone else does or thinks. It’s a knowing that you’re human, you’re flawed, and you’re awesome in your own way.” ~ Jen Sincero

Building Confidence - Leopard Print Outfit

Building confidence isn’t easy. In my case, I believe wholeheartedly that cutting my hair was the catalyst for my confidence boost. While not an easy one to make, that decision changed the trajectory of my life. Months prior, I was stuck in a rut. My wardrobe was boring me, I was extremely indecisive about the simplest things, and I compared my life to (some of) my peers more times than I’d like to admit. So, when I found out I had Alopecia, I decided to cut my hair not only track my regrowth but also as a way to revive some things that had been lying dormant in my life.

The quickest way to acquire self-confidence is to do exactly what you are afraid to do. ~ Anon

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After the cut, things started falling into place in the most seamless way. It was and still is, uncanny. The way my faith is set up, I know that’s nothing but God working. Cutting off my hair, AKA my security blanket, literally catapulted me outside of my comfort zone. Sink or swim, like it or not, my new normal was happening with or without me.

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By the grace of God and some cute items I’ve added to my closet, I’m becoming the most confident version of myself. Do I still get stuck in my own head? Absolutely. Do I get scared sometimes and revert back to what’s comfortable? For sure! However, I make it a point not to stay in those places too long.

ANDROGENETIC ALOPECIA
Operating Outside of your Comfort Zone

Faux Leather Baseball Cap: Nordstrom Rack, Free People (Similar) // Earrings: Nordstrom Rack (another option)

So…what’s something that has helped build your confidence lately? Let me know by commenting below!

Until next time: be blessed, stay safe, and take care of yourself. Talk soon!

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  1. Stacie says

    March 12, 2019 at 11:18 am

    Cuteness! I just love leopard print anything but I don’t own a pair of leggings yet. I need to get some asap!

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    • Whitney says

      March 13, 2019 at 2:50 pm

      Thanks so much, Stacie! I’ve never met a leopard print I didn’t love. 🙂

      Reply
  2. Edwige says

    March 13, 2019 at 12:26 pm

    You look great! i love how you mixed these prints with a bold color! Totally agree on doing something that scares is a sign of boosting your confidence! Making a video a couple of weeks ago (which I’m always afraid to do) has boosted my confidence to do even more videos. Thanks for sharing!

    Edwige | http://www.hypnozglam.com

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    • Whitney says

      March 13, 2019 at 2:52 pm

      Thanks, Edwige! This was definitely a fun look to put together. I’m happy to hear you doing something that scares you. Here’s to being fearless and doing more things outside of our comfort zone!

      Reply
  3. Ashley says

    March 21, 2019 at 11:05 am

    You are rocking this leopard print, lady! Well done!

    -Ashley
    Le Stylo Rouge

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    • Whitney says

      April 5, 2019 at 4:50 pm

      Thanks so much, Ashley!

      Reply

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