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Personal Style | Wardrobe Refresh

September 12, 2018 by Whitney 10 Comments

Lately, I’ve been wearing more color and more outfits that are a bit out of my comfort zone. But, to my surprise, I’m thoroughly enjoying this change of pace. Granted, I still wear my black leggings and kimonos faithfully, but even then I try to add a little pizazz to my day to day “uniform”.  The pizazz can be as simple as an avant-garde piece of jewelry, or a colorful lip. As long as it gives my outfit some umph, I’m here for it!

See Also: How to Add Color to Your Wardrobe

I’m embracing change, figuring out how to make certain trends work for me, and most importantly, I’m having fun. I have a new found joy when I’m putting together outfits or shopping for new pieces. It’s quite refreshing.

Revamping your Wardrobe

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See Also: How to Create a Signature Style

I think every once in a while, everyone’s wardrobe needs to be refreshed. Granted, I’ve been known to take a minimalistic approach towards my wardrobe. I’ve written about it several times, and I still practice a lot of minimal wardrobe techniques. However, having the same wardrobe – with a few new additions here and there –  season after season can cause you to enter into a style rut. This happened to me. Again, each season I thoughtfully add new pieces. But I began to notice the bulk of my wardrobe has been the same for a very l o n g time.

Every once in a while, your wardrobe needs to be revamped and refreshed! #wnjstyle

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See Also: Tips on Stretching Your Wardrobe

Now, don’t take this as me telling you to purchase an entirely new wardrobe four times a year. That’s definitely not where I’m going with this. I’m just saying there’s nothing wrong with gradually refreshing your wardrobe. Being in a style rut is no fun. It’s uninspiring and can easily cause your mood and productivity to plummet. Trust me; the right clothes can do wonders for your mood AND your productivity! When I feel good about what I’m wearing I get a lot more done. I’m also more inspired to try things like a new lip color, or even a new hairstyle.

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Sneakers: Converse (same)

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So tell me, when’s the last time you refreshed your wardrobe? Let me know!

Thanks, as always, for reading and commenting and until next time, be blessed and stay safe.

Love & light…xo!

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Filed Under: Style Tagged With: Converse, Macy's, maxi dresses, Personal Style

Lifestyle | Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress + Life Lessons at 31

August 29, 2017 by Whitney 8 Comments

A few weeks ago, I celebrated my 31st birthday. To say the celebration was enjoyable is an understatement! My husband and I traveled to the Dominican Republic and enjoyed 5 relaxing fun-filled and glorious days in Punta Cana. While there, I wore a black Rachel Roy tunic dress, also known as my “birthday dress”. I wanted something flowy, lightweight and short, and this option was perfect!

We spent most of our days lounging by the beach or the pool, but I did get a chance to sneak off one morning to indulge in a little “me time”. I sat on our patio and filled a few pages in my journal. I like to reflect on my past year around my birthday. While some of my reflections will remain private, below are a few things I’ve learned over the past year about faith, marriage, life, and finances.

Related: 50 Life Goals

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

Shift Dress: Rachel Roy, Macy’s (same) // Sandals: Melissa, Nordstrom Rack (another option) // Clutch: Love, Cortnie (same)

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

FAITH | Without my faith, I am nothing. God has always been the center of my life, but since turning 30 I have worked extremely hard to build a personal relationship with Him. Through daily devotionals, praying with my husband, and setting aside time in the morning and evening for Bible Study, I am constantly growing into the woman God has called me to be. It’s an ongoing transformation, but I am so happy that I’ve made deepening my relationship with God a priority. Because of this decision, several areas of my life have improved greatly.

Related: Spiritual Wellness | Forgiveness & Grace

MARRIAGE | Ever since I was a little girl I dreamed of becoming a writer, a wife, and a mother. I never dreamed of the perfect wedding day or the perfect dress. My focus was always the marriage itself, as well as building a family. I’ve always seen positive displays of love, so I’ve always known what real love looks like. With Darrius, I have that. The love we share is a godsend and it’s something I do not take for granted. Our marriage is built on a solid foundation; God is at the center. I have learned to make our marriage a priority, which in turn has made me a better wife and partner. As I grow in Christ, I know that our marriage will only continue to thrive and get better.

Life is short. Life is a gift. Life is to be LIVED. #wnjinspired

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LIFE | Life is short. Life is a gift. Life is to be LIVED. Although not perfect, God has blessed me with an amazing life. I pray over my life daily and make a conscious effort to keep certain energy at bay. I understand the importance of surrounding myself with uplifting, genuine, and purpose driven people. Looking at my circle today, it blows my mind at how diverse, yet similar we really are. Our day-to-day lives may be different, but our intention to be the very best human beings possible and our love for one another is the same.

FINANCES | Money has always been a touchy subject for me, but that’s because I never took the time to really understand it. For the past year or so, I’ve made it a point to learn more about money. I’ve read books, listened to podcasts, as well as discussed my finances with trusted individuals. All this in hopes to become educated so that I’m able to make wise financial decisions for myself, my businesses, and our family.

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

Black Turban: Amazon (same)

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

So tell me, what are some lessons you’ve learned thus far about faith, love, life, and finances? Also, what do you think about my black Rachel Roy tunic dress? Let me know! 

I don’t claim to have all the answers, nor do I know it all. However, the lessons shared are just a few things that I know for sure. As I embark on this, my 31st year, I anticipate great things! I hope you stick around. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…xo!

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Filed Under: Style Tagged With: Love Cortnie, Macy's, Rachel Roy

Personal Style | Wearing Stripes + 4 Questions to Ask Before Buying Something New

July 3, 2017 by Whitney 17 Comments

So, I’m still trying to get my minimal wardrobe down pat. I took a break from shopping and organizing my closet for about a month or so, in order to focus my attention elsewhere. But as of last month, I’m back in action. This striped blouse, purchased for just $7.99 at Macy’s, is actually one of my latest minimal wardrobe additions. Wearing stripes for me comes as natural as wearing leopard print and as much as I love solids, styling prints every so often is a must!

* Read Also, How to Style 1 Kimono 3 Ways

How to Wear Stripes

How to Wear Stripes

Blouse: Macy’s // Bodysuit: F21 // Leggings: Philosophy, TJMaxx (another option) // Necklace: Purchased in NY // Shoes: Vince Camuto, Nordstrom Rack (similar style)

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Before deciding to purchase this blouse I had to come up with at least 3 ways to wear it. Regardless of the sale price, if it didn’t serve a purpose in my wardrobe, and if it didn’t make me happy, I wasn’t going home with it. Gone are the days when I purchase an item “just because” it’s the right price. My budget and my closet can no longer afford it.

:: SHOPPING TIP :: Before purchasing an item, make sure you can style it at least 3 ways. #wnjstyle

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I approach shopping for new wardrobe items, shoes and accessories included, differently these days. It’s taken some getting used to and there are times when I find myself slipping back to my old ways of shopping, but more often than not I catch myself. To help keep me on track I have 4 questions, in the Notes section of my phone, that I often refer to each time I go shopping for something new. You may find them helpful.

  1. Can you afford this item right now?
  2. Does this item fit into your lifestyle? 
  3. Can you style the item at least 3 ways?
  4. Does this item speak to your personal style?
4 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Buying Something New #wnjstyle

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Tote Bag: Marc Jacobs, Nordstrom Rack (another option)

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So tell me, do you ask yourself certain questions before making new wardrobe purchases? Also, are you a fan of wearing stripes? Let me know!

Thanks for reading and be sure to share your thoughts with me below. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Filed Under: Style Tagged With: All Black, Leggings, Macy's, minimal wardrobe

Personal Style | How to Style a Kimono 3 Ways

June 28, 2017 by Whitney 12 Comments

Kimonos are one of my favorite wardrobe pieces to style. The way they flow in the wind and gently cling to your shoulders is effortless. Simply put, my love for kimonos runs deep. So, when I was approached by my brother-in-style, Sam of samcperry.com, to collaborate with him on a kimono post, saying YES was a no-brainer; check out his kimono post here. 

Kimonos can be styled in a plethora of ways. From the workplace to date night, to a casual weekend running errands, kimonos are the perfect accessory. If you’re unsure about how to style your kimono this season, today’s post on how to style a kimono 3 ways will definitely give you a few ideas.

Look 1

Kimono: Want & Need, Nordstrom Rack (similar) // Dress: Marshall’s (similar) // Necklace: oNecklace // Shoes: Kate Spade, DSW (same brand & similar style)

Look 1 is definitely a workplace or date night outfit. I’m not a fan of wearing heels, so to spruce up this look I added a pair of sparkly flats. I believe every woman should own at least 2-3 pairs of fancy flats, especially if you don’t wear heels often. Now, I could’ve let the black dress stand alone but instead, I added the kimono. This simple touch adds an element of sophistication and elegance.

Adding a kimono to your outfit instantly adds an element of elegance to your look. #wnjstyle

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 * Read Also, How to Style a Kimono and Jeans

Look 2

 How to Style a Kimono

Tunic: TJMaxx // Shorts: Torrid (similar) // Sandals: Birkenstocks, DSW (same)

 How to Style a Kimono

It took me a few years to own a pair of short shorts. I’ve always loved my legs, but I never thought I’d find a pair of short shorts that would “work for me.” Fast forward to now, I’ve found a pair and you can’t tell me a thing! Adding the kimono to this look gave the outfit a more feminine and chic look. Look 2 is perfect for a summer barbecue, running errands or even a cute movie day date. It’s an effortless and easy breezy look and it’s one that I’ll be wearing throughout the entire summer season.

How to Wear a Kimono with a Pair of Shorts this Summer #wnjstyle

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* Read Also, How to Style a Men’s Kimono

 How to Style a Kimono

Look 3

 How to Style a Kimono

T-Shirt: Target (similar) // Pants: American Rag, Macy’s / Necklace: oNecklace

 How to Style a Kimono

On those cool summer days, wearing a kimono with a t-shirt and a pair of lightweight pants is a perfect option. Without the kimono Look 3 would be a bit boring, in my opinion. Still cute, but boring. The floral kimono adds a stylish element to a very basic look. This is yet another effortless summer outfit, perfect for several occasions.

How to Style 1 Kimono 3 Ways #wnjstyle

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* Read Also, How to Style a Black & White Floral Kimono

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So tell me, which look is your favorite? Let me know! 

Thanks for reading and be sure to let me know your thoughts below. Also, don’t forget to head over and read Sam’s post. Be sure to show him some love! Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Filed Under: Style Tagged With: DSW, kimono, Macy's, Nordstrom Rack, shorts

Personal Style | Wearing Burgundy and White

October 25, 2016 by Whitney 11 Comments

In my last outfit post I wore burgundy and black, but today I’m switching things up and styling burgundy and white. It’s no secret that I’m a big fan of re-purposing certain wardrobe items. So when it came to this outfit, I had no problem restyling these pants! Since the weather isn’t that cold yet, the lightweight burgundy pants are still a staple in my early fall wardrobe.

* See Also, Styling Burgundy & Black 

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Blouse: Daniel Rainn, Nordstrom Rack (Another Option) // Pants: American Ragg, Macy’s // Purse: Forever 21 (Another Option)

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I knew adding a white blouse would make this outfit look very classic and fresh. I also wanted to keep the outfit as minimal as possible, so I decided to keep the jewelry simple. Sometimes less is more, don’t you agree? 

Adding a crisp white shirt or blouse makes an outfit instantly look fresh & chic! #wnjstyle

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This is the perfect outfit for a business casual work function/meeting, a date night or even a night on the town with my girls. I can also wear this outfit to church. This burgundy and white outfit is yet another all purpose, remixed outfit and that makes me very happy!

Styling Burgundy and White

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Heels: Bloomingdales (Another Option) // Necklace: Macy’s

Burgundy and White


So tell me, what do you think about outfit remix? Are you a fan of my white and burgundy outfit? Let me know! 

Thanks, as always, for reading and commenting. It’s always a pleasure reading your comments and engaging with you all. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Personal Style | Wearing Burgundy and Black in Ellicott City

October 14, 2016 by Whitney 12 Comments

My little sister told me that burgundy was the color of the season. So I guess you can say this outfit is “on trend”, right? This isn’t my first time wearing burgundy and black, but it is the first time I’m pairing the colors together this season. I’ve had these pants for quite sometime and I always LOVE styling them. The material is lightweight and the elastic around the tummy area is perfection! I figured this outfit would be perfect for a weekend stroll through Old Ellicott City with Darrius.

* See Also, The Perfect Weekend Staycation Outfit

Wearing Burgundy and Black

Cardigan: Jessica Simpson, Macy’s (Another Option) // Pants: American Rag, Macys // Sunnies: H&M (Another Option) // Purse: Nine West, Gifted

Wearing Burgundy and Black

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We love to take outfit pictures in Old Ellicott City – the stone walls, quaint streets and little shops are the perfect backdrop. But since the flood that took place at the end of July, we haven’t visited the area in months. While there were still several signs of water damage on the sidewalks, as well as some boarded up storefronts, the historic city still has its charm. Smiling from the other side of the camera, Darrius said, “Some of your best outfit pics are shot here in Ellicott City. We should just keep coming here!”

Wearing burgundy and black is the perfect color combination for the season! #wnjstyle

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After stopping to visit a few open stores, just to look around, we then drove to one of our favorite locations and started snapping. We had to walk a bit to get to this location, but that was no problem. This outfit was extremely comfortable! It’s not secret that I love a good casual, comfy and chic outfit. This look was all that and more. As I often say, being stylish AND comfortable is always the way to go!

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Sneakers: New Look, Asos (Same)

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So tell me, do you like wearing burgundy and black? What’s your favorite color combo? Let me know! 

Thanks for reading and be sure let me know your thoughts on my latest outfit. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Filed Under: Style Tagged With: Asos, H&M, Macy's

Personal Style | Black Skirt and Black Blouse + a Linkup

June 28, 2016 by Whitney 22 Comments

Hey, friends! I’ll be switching  things up a bit today as I co-host the Bloggers Who’ve Inspired Me Linkup with Rachel. But first, let’s get into todays outfit…

Last week, I was able to wear my first short skirt of the season! I was thrilled the temperature was warm enough to show a little leg, so didn’t hesitate to style this black skirt and black blouse for a dinner date. Of course hubs was pleased, as he is anytime I show off my legs. So needless to say, the outfit was a hit!

Black skirt and Black Blouse

Black Skirt and Black Blouse - OOTD

Blouse: Nordstrom Rack (Similar) // Skirt: Style & Co, Macy’s (Another Option)

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At first I thought wearing the sheer blouse would be enough, but I was going for the sexy-chic look. Therefore, I pushed the envelope a bit and added the shorter skirt as well. If an outfit is styled correctly, it’s OK to go for it and show off more than one “asset”.

Depending on how you style an outfit, it’s OK to show off more than one “asset”. #wnjstyle

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The black skirt, an item I’ve had for years, is a perfect item to have in my minimal wardrobe. It can easily be re-styled time and time again, and so can the sheer top! After all, think about how think about many times I’ve styled the blouse here on the blog. A LOT.

* See Also: Black and White Minimalism

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Clutch: Purchase Here // Flats: Tesori, Nordstrom Rack (Another Option)

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Now for “Bloggers Who Have Inspired Me” link up

Rachel of Garay Treasures blog:

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Rachel is a former full time preschool special education teacher turned full time stay-at- home mom of four children with a passion for substitute teaching and blogging at Garay Treasures on the side. Garay Treasures is a fashion and lifestyle blog with some added posts on faith and everyday treasures. Rachel loves drinking several cups of coffee a day (hot or iced), blogging, and reading and playing with her children.

You can follow Rachel by bloglovin, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook or Pinterest.

Meet your co-host Whitney of Whitney Nic James Blog:

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Whitney is a purpose driven wife and lifestyle blogger behind www.whitneynicjames.com. She is passionate about teaching women how to fearlessly live a stylish, affordable & uplifting lifestyle. You can follow Whitney via the following social medias: Twitter, Facebook & Instagram.

Now on to the featured 5 bloggers from last week, this time I selected 5 of the most clicked posts starting with the highest clicked on,but this won’t happen often:

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Sherry looks so lovely in her watercolor dress and was the most clicked on from last week. See post here.

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I love reading Stitch Fix box reviews, so this is one more to share and hopefully you will find something you like for your next fix.

 

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Marta shares her life lately story and the fun stuff she has encountered lately, here.

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Candace looks fantastic in this dressed up shift dress look. See post here.

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How adorable is Katies paint splatted skirt and denim top look. I love Katie’s colorful and bright feminine outfits, see this one here.

Now it is your turn, please follow the rules below and enjoy!

1). Please link up recent posts and include the link up button or post this URL link back on your blog. The posts can be about fashion, DIY projects, recipes, inspiration, tips, etc. *If you link up other link ups or giveaways please be sure you share this link up on your link up post to share the blog love and I will be sure to link up to yours. Also please follow me in the below social medias and let me know how you are following and I will follow back. Thank you!

2). Please follow your host: Rachel of Garay Treasures either by Bloglovin, Instagram, Facebook or Twitter or all. Comment below and let me know how you are following so I can follow back.

3). Stop by and check out the other bloggers who have linked up and be inspired.

4). Have fun! Comment below if you have any questions! Thanks for linking

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Filed Under: Style Tagged With: black, Macy's, Nordstrom Rack

Personal Style | Denim and Leopard Print

February 22, 2016 by Whitney 37 Comments

Wearing denim and leopard print is probably one of my favorite combinations! This weekend I was able to style this combo for a day of errands, lunch and hanging out with hubs. I’ve been dying to wear this jacket, purchased from Macy’s a few seasons ago. Since the weather was just right, not too cold and not too warm, I figured it’d be the perfect jacket to wear.

Denim and Animal Print

OOTD - Denim and Animal Print

Denim: JCP (Another Option) // Jacket: Calvin Klein (Another Option) // Flats: Tesori (Another Option)

Denim and Animal Print - OOTD

I like to fill my wardrobe with clothes that can easily be mixed and matched. Of course I have some wardrobe items that are specifically for formal occasions, but the majority of my options can be worn any day. This outfit is the perfect example! Not only is this a great outfit for the weekend, but it can also work for a casual date night, a shopping trip or even a day of working from home.

Styling denim and leopard print is the perfect outfit combo! #wnjstyle

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Denim and Animal Print OOTD

Outfit - Denim and Leopard Print

Clutch: Thrifted, Goodiwll (Another Option) // Earrings: Thrifted, 2nd Avenue

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So tell me, are you a fan of the denim and leopard print combo? Does your wardrobe consist of many mix and match options? Let me know!

Thanks for reading! Be sure to link your recent outfit to my Personal Style Linkup below. Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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