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#WNJReads | What You Should Be Reading to Keep You Motivated

November 12, 2015 by Whitney 8 Comments

A few days ago someone asked what I’ve been reading, so I posted a few of my reads on Instagram. I wanted to share here on the blog as well; I think it’s a great topic to discuss as we prepare for the New Year. Hopefully these suggestions will give you some ideas and in turn, you can send some suggestions my way! There are a few more books on my to-read list (by January 31st), but these are the few I’ve been focused on at the moment. Check out the video and description of each below! 

1. Our Daily Bread | I’ve been reading this devotional for years and I suggest it to just about everyone who asks for an inspirational read suggestion. It’s a daily devotional, filled with short stories, practical applications and references a story in the Bible to tie it altogether. I get them mailed to my home and I also use the app several times a week. If you’re looking for an easy and impactful daily devotional, check it out!

2. Destiny, T.D. Jakes | This book is a must read if you’re searching for a your purpose and trying to figure out why you’re here. This book is truly life changing and came at the perfect time. Not only did I have the pleasure of meeting the author, but he also encouraged me to continue pursing and living my purpose. Powerful moment, for sure. If you get a chance to read this book let me know. I’d love to hear your thoughts!

3. ZAG, Marty Neumeier | Thanks to my Mom I found out about this book. This is yet another “on time” read, as far as where I am in my blog and business journey. It’s an easy and straightforward read on how to stand out from your competition and how to “zag” when everyone else is doing the same thing. GREAT read!

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4. Essence Magazine (October & November Issue) | I’ve been a subscriber to Essence Magazine for years. These 2 issues, one with Kerry Washington on the cover and the other with Taraji P. Henson, did not disappoint. Both were filled with very useful financial, life and beauty tips/info, geared towards the African American Woman. If you can get your hands on these issues, you won’t be sorry!

5. Self (October Issue) | Although I’m not a subscriber, I often purchase this Self Magazine (and others)  when one of my favorite celebrities is on the cover. I mean let’s be honest, imagery draws everyone in right? I’ve been a fan of Jessica Alba for a while and I admire her as a business woman, wife and mother. Seeing her on the cover, I knew I had to purchase this issue. She talked a lot about building her billion dollar brand while being a woman, mom and wife. She also let readers know a few of her woman inspirations. Check it out if you can.

6. O Magazine (November Issue) | I’m a fan of O Magazine and this issue was not only visually appealing, but uplifting as well. My favorite part of the issue, aside from Oprah’s 70’s inspired outfit, was the pocket size quotable inspiration cards.  You can pop out these cards and add them to your vision board, keep them in your wallet or mirror as daily reminders.

What You Should Be Reading


So tell me, what do you think about what I’ve been reading? What books, magazines or devotionals have you been reading lately? Let me know?

Thanks for reading and be sure to check out the video for an even more in-depth look at what I’ve been reading. Be sure to subscribe to my YouTube Channel for more videos! Also, be sure to enter the Kate Spade #FearlessWomanIAM giveaway, HERE. Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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#WNJSocial | My New Instagram Approach + 5 Amazing Women to Follow

November 11, 2015 by Whitney 4 Comments

For the past 8 weeks, I’ve been steadily building my new Instagram account. I’ve been able to grow my following from 0 to 850 (+) in this short amount of time. When I had my old Instagram I had a decent following, yes, but I mostly posted without intention. I aimlessly shared images that I liked and hoped people would find them interesting. Not the best tactic.

As a visual person, I’m constantly inspired by images, which is why I now focus so much on imagery. I do my best to share clear pictures, provide quick and valuable content, as well as a few real-life moments here and there. All in all, I share images with intention and images that are aligned with my purpose. I share what I want to see. I’m also more aware of who I follow and who I allow to follow me. I’m very protective of my brand and I’m picky about what I allow my mind to be consumed with when it comes to social media. Below are 5 amazing women I enjoy following on Instagram. Check them out!

Who to Follow on Instagram

1. @FearlessWoman_Iam | By now I’m sure you’ve heard about the #FearlessWomanIAM movement, created to highlight and inspire fearless, stylish and entrepreneurial women of today. I decided to create an Instagram account in hopes to continue uplifting women by sharing images of other powerful women, insightful quotes, and thought-provoking questions. The feed is interactive, positive, and geared towards the fearless women.

2. @KylaLive | The creator of Pink Proverb, an inspirational and lifestyle blog, has a very inviting feed. From real-life happenings to heartfelt reminders/quotes and a sprinkle of personal style, Kyla shares a plethora of enjoyable images. This is definitely an account to follow if you fancy that mix.

Be careful what you allow yourself to consume on social media. Protect your mind. #wnjsocial

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3. @Alex_Elle | I love a good word or quote and Alex provides just that through her intentional and minimal Instagram feed. Her transparency is refreshing, and her intention to inspire is always evident.

4. @FourOneOhBlog | I fell in love with this account after meeting Tia, the blogger behind Four One Oh!, this summer. Her images tell a story and you can tell that she’s very intentional with what she shares. From fashion, to food and events, Tia’s feed comes to life! Seeing some of her pictures make you wish you were there.

5. @SwitchPivotorQuit | Filled with encouraging business & lifestyle content, this Instagram feed is designed to support and encourage women. According to the SPQ website, the creator, Ahyiana Angel, creating an environment where others find encouragement as a result of her positive energy, skill, and fearless attitude is one of her proudest moments.


So tell me, who are some of your favorites to follow? Let me know!

Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Personal Style | Sejour at Nordstrom for (More) Plus Size Casual Wear Options

November 9, 2015 by Whitney 19 Comments

This weekend I finally headed to the mall to return and exchange a few items. My first stop was Nordstrom. I had a spring jacket that I didn’t get a chance to wear, so I figured I’d exchange it for a seasonal item I could style now. I headed to the Sejour section and began looking through the casual wear sweaters and blouses. After a few minutes of browsing, hubs actually picked up this sweater. I’m so glad he did because I LOVE IT! It’s lightweight, easy to style, and fits perfectly.

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Top: Sejour, Nordstrom (Same) // Leggings: Premise, Marshalls // Clutch: Love, Cortnie (Same)

Nordstrom Plus Size - Sejour

In keeping with my casual wear theme for the fall, I knew the top would be a good wardrobe addition. I went with a size 0X/1X and the fit was exactly how I like – flowy and loose fitting, but not too baggy that it looks sloppy.

Shopping for Plus Size casual wear? Sejour (at @Nordstrom) is a great brand to try. #wnjstyle

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The top, a bit pricey for some, was worth the investment for me because I know and trust the brand. Sejour clothing is made very well and the materials are always extremely durable. Check out a few of my other Sejour favorites below for the season, as well as the exact sweater I’m styling in today’s OOTD.

Nordstrom Plus Size Casual Wear

Sejour Sweater - Nordstrom

Necklace: Purchased in NY (Another Option) // Flats: Steve Madden (Another Option)

 

Sejour Brand at Nordstrom

Option 1 // Option 2 // Option 3

Along with the casual wear options above, I also wanted to share my favorite linkup from last week. Style blogger and fellow DMV blogger boo Kasi (The Style Perk) looks so stylish in this striped dress. The burgundy hat and tote bag are the perfect addition to this casual and chic outfit. As mentioned in this post, hats are great accessories to style this season. Looking good, Kasi!

Wearing Stripes - The Style Perk

Kasi | The Style Perk


So tell me, have you ever purchased a Sejour item? What’s one of your go-to brands when shopping? Let me know!

Thanks for reading and be sure to link your recent fall outfit to my Personal Style Link Up below; can’t wait to see what you’re wearing! Also, be sure to enter the Kate Spade #FearlessWomanIAM giveaway, HERE! Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Filed Under: Personal Style Linkup, Plus Size Style, Style, WNJ Style Tagged With: Casual Wear, Nordstrom, plus size shopping, Sejour

Giveaway | Prepare for the New Year with #FearlessWomanIAM

November 7, 2015 by Whitney 13 Comments

Happy Saturday, friends! I usually don’t post on weekends, but I’m so excited about this giveaway that I had to make an exception. As you may know, I’ve created the #FearlessWomanIAM movement a few months ago. It’s mission is to highlight and inspire fearless, stylish and encourging women of today!

I’ve published several #FearlessWoman interviews here on WNJ and its been truly an honor to share the wisdom of so many amazing and inspiring women. There’s so much in store for this movement in 2016 and my prayer is that support and embrace this inspiring and life changing movement.

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With the new year quickly approaching, it’s important that all fearless women have a stylish and useful calendar/agenda on deck, in order to help them be successful in 2016. As mentioned here on the blog, writing down your goals and plans is one of the keys to success and productivity. That’s why I’m giving away one of my favorite planners, along with a matching journal and the latest issue of Essence Magazine. These items will surely motivate you to prepare for an amazing and productive new year. I’m committed to seeing you succeed, which is why I am extremely passionate about #FearlessWomanIAM. Be sure to enter below – best wishes to you!

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Events | Develop Your Personal Style Without Breaking the Bank + Personal Style Discovery 2016

November 5, 2015 by Whitney 1 Comment

For years I’ve worked really hard to develop my personal style. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed sharing posts on how to build a cohesive personal style, as well as sharing some of my favorite closet items that fit my lifestyle. Throughout this process I’ve realized that looking stylish and presentable is crucial, but it does not have to be expensive. Thanks to thrifting, sales racks, and smart shopping I’ve mastered my personal style without breaking the bank. 

Personal Style Class

That’s why I’ve created the Personal Style Discovery class. This class will be intimate, interactive, and in-person. It’s designed to show women (of all ages) how to develop their personal style without breaking the bank. The class will be available for those in the DMV (DC/MD/VA) area in mid-2016. I also plan to share more personal style tips and advice here on WNJ, so don’t worry. If you’re not in the area, you’ll still be able to get some great personal style advice. I may even take this class on the road to a few cities; we’ll see!

Enhancing your personal style does not have to break the bank. #wnjstyle

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Along with the Personal Style Discovery class, I plan to start sharing even more tips, that you won’t get here on WNJ, through my newsletter. I’ve been pushing this for a while now, yes. But I’m passionate about helping and teaching as many women as I can how to achieve an affordable and stylish personal style. It’s not rocket science, but there is a method to curating a style that fits your budget, lifestyle, and your taste.

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So tell me, are you excited about the Personal Style Discovery class + more personal style tips? What are some things you’d like to learn about achieving an affordable personal style? Let me know! 

Thanks for reading! Be sure to head to this week’s Personal Style Linkup and show off your latest OOTD. I’ll be sharing my favorite link on Monday. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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#WNJInspired | How to Finish the Year Strong Without Overwhelming Yourself

November 4, 2015 by Whitney 16 Comments

There’s no getting around it. The end of the year is near. If you’re like me, you have several goals you’ve been working hard to achieve throughout the year. There may even be some goals you’re scurrying to accomplish before the year ends. I’m right there with you. As we rush to check things off our lists, it’s important not to drive ourselves crazy in the process. Speaking from experience, being overwhelmed and acting like a crazed maniac is no fun. Here are a few tips on how to finish the year strong, without overwhelming yourself. 

Finish the Year Strong

Write it down. | I lead with this suggestion all the time when giving advice on how to be productive. You have to write your goals, ideas, and plans down on paper in order for them to become a reality. There’s something about seeing your plans on paper that makes plans that much more attainable. Grab a pretty planner, journal or notepad and start writing. Even if you just have ideas and no solid plan of action, write it. It’s better to brain dump and get it all out first, then figure out and create the plan of action. You may find that writing down these last few 2015 goals may have to wait until 2016. That’s OK. But if you don’t write it down and start thinking about it, you’ll never know.

Figure out who you need. | Do you need a business or finance coach? Possibly an accountability partner or mentor? What about an intern or assistant? Not sure about you, but I’m at the point where I’m considering adding a few people to my team. In order to finish the year strong and ensure a successful 2016, I need a little help. No one can do it alone. With the blog growing and #FearlessWomanIam preparing to fully launch, I’m in the process of figuring out who (and when) I need to add to my team. Admitting that I need a little help to accomplish everything I have planned is a huge step. Never be afraid to ask for help and realize that in order to be successful, you need a solid and reliable team to assist you.

See, The Importance of a Solid Starting 5

Write your ideas down, do the work, and watch them become a reality. #wnjinspired

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How to Finish the Year Strong

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Be realistic. | Setting realistic goals is a must during anytime of the year. If you’re setting new goals to complete by the end of 2015, be realistic. There isn’t much time left, so your end of the year goals should be short and concise. Maybe you have that last 5 lbs to drop before 2016. Very doable – create a plan and go for it! Possibly you want to re-design or re-arrange a room in your home. Use your calendar and lock in a (realistic) date to complete this task. Jot down exactly what you’ll need to make this happen in a blank journal or notepad, pin a few images for inspiration, figure out what stores to visit and what you can maybe do yourself, and get to work. Don’t try to squeeze in too much. You can always start the process and complete it in the 2016. Some plans/goals do in fact require more time.

Make your plans known. | Share your “last minute” goals with those around you. Going back to figuring out who you need – letting people know what you need in order to achieve a goal is a good thing. You never know what advice, tips or resources others may have to help you crush your goals. Protect your dreams, yes, but don’t hold them so tightly that you hide them from someone who can possible help make that dream come true.

Share your ideas with others, but have discernment when deciding who to share with. #wnjinspired

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So tell me, any tips you want to share on how to finish the year strong? Any last minute goals you have before 2016 gets arrives? Let me know! 

Thanks for reading! Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe.

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Personal Style | Wearing Hats Lately

November 3, 2015 by Whitney 8 Comments

I’ve been in a casual mood lately when it comes to planning daily outfits. I’ve also been wearing hats A LOT more than usual. Luckily, as long as I’m presentable, I’m able to dress down a bit at work. My office does not enforce a strict dress code and I really appreciate that. I don’t have to worry about my feet hurting from heels or feeling stuffy because of a pant/skirt suit. I’m able to feel comfortable in my clothing throughout the day. However, if I feel the need to dress it up a bit, I’m able to do that as well.

OOTD Casualwear

Casual Outfit

Sweater: Nordstrom Rack (Another Option) // Pants: Sejour, Nordstrom (Affordable Style Option) // Hat: Flea Market (Plain Black Option)

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Yes, I can even wear hats to work. Awesome, right?! We’re all about embracing (appropriate) personal style choices at the office, all while getting work done of course. I don’t wear hats to work that often as a personal preference. I do tend to throw on a cute one after work, especially if hubs and I have a casual date night planned or if I’m making a grocery store run.

Stylish hats are the perfect accessory to add to your casual fall or winter outfit! #wnjstyle

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Hats are the perfect accessory to add to an outfit during fall and winter. Of course, it’s a stylish and obvious way to keep your head warm during this time of year. It’s also a great way to cover up a bad hair day, like the time I wore this one. Lastly, if you’re into a more laid-back style like I’ve been for the past few weeks, hats are a wonderful option to complete a casual OOTD!

OOTD Casual Outfit

Outfit Details

Purse: Bakers, Old (Another Animal Print Option) // Flats: Steve Madden, Steve Madden Outlet (Another Option)

Casual Outfit Option


So tell me, have you been dressing more casual or wearing hats lately? Let me know!

Thanks for reading and until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe!

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Personal Style | October Fall Style Recap

November 2, 2015 by Whitney 27 Comments

October has come and gone like that! While the weather hasn’t all the way caught up to the season of fall, fall style is in full swing here on WNJ. I was excited and ready to pull out my chunky sweaters, fall hats and leather leggings and style them here on the blog. Here are a few of my favorite looks from October!

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Leopard Print // Fall Florals

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Vest & T-Shirt //All Black

It’s no surprise that I stretched my wardrobe and wore a few items more than once last month. From my chunky sweater, to the leather leggings and certain accessories I was all about re-purposing certain items. I also plan to continue this throughout the fall and winter. Once the weather consistently cools down I plan to add boots and more layers to my outfits. Can’t wait!

Don’t be afraid to re-purpose certain wardrobe items this season! #wnjstyle

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Fall Style Recap

Christmas Sweater // Chunky Sweater + Leggings

Fall Style - OOTD

Tie-Dye Tunic // Thrifted Tunic


So tell me, what’s your favorite WNJ fall style outfit thus far? Let me know! 

Thanks for reading and be sure to link your recent fall outfit to my Personal Style Link Up below; can’t wait to see what you’re wearing! Also, be sure to sign up for my newsletter for upcoming events, announcements, freebies and more. This fall/winter I have lots planned and I’m sure you won’t want to miss out. Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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