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Lifestyle | Self Care & Inspirational Giveaway

September 16, 2015 by Whitney 31 Comments

Before I jet off to enjoy my blog break, I must share my Self Care Giveaway with you! Yesterday I shared my plans for a well needed break and it seems like many of you think breaks are indeed necessary. In keeping with the self care theme, I figured it was only right that I share a few of my favorite things with you that keep me relaxed, organized and taken care of. Here’s what you can win, take a look!

Sephora Honey Mask (Nourishing & Balancing)
SpaLife Cocoa Butter & Vitamin E Hand Gloves
Baboo Spa Tea Tree Face Wipes
EOS Hand Lotion (Fresh Flowers Scent)
“Keep Calm” Bookmark
Blank Journal
Things to Do & Reminder List Packet (With Pencil)
2016 Hanging Wall Calendar from Easter Seals

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Great giveaway, right?! Be sure to enter, comment below and tell others about it as well. Again, I’ll officially be on “blog-cation” (blog vacation, lol) starting next Monday. So until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe….XO!

Self Care | Why Taking a Break from Blogging Is Good for You and Your Readers

September 15, 2015 by Whitney 17 Comments

Hey there! I missed you all for yesterday’s Personal Style Monday. I found myself checking my site to see who’d linked up, what they were wearing, and there was nothing there! So why didn’t I post yesterday? Glad you asked. I honestly didn’t feel like it. There, I said it. I had an outfit post and content ready to go, but something in me just wasn’t feeling it. I was feeling the outfit because I looked fly, lol…but I didn’t feel like the editing and sharing part.

That was a wake up call for me. This summer I’ve been providing stylish outfits, personal style tips, inspiring features, and I’ve LOVED every moment/post! However, I’ve been so adamant about feeding my readers great content that I neglected myself. No bueno. In a nutshell, it’s time for Whitney to hit the pause button and regroup.

Hitting the pause button has been something I’ve thought about and talked about with my husband and family for a few weeks. For some reason, I kept convincing myself that I’d wait until “next week” or “next month”. After all, I’ve worked so hard to remain consistent throughout the summer and I’ve really been trying to define and grow my brand. So taking a break from all this just didn’t seem right. However after attending Blogalicious this past weekend, I realized that taking a break can actually be beneficial, for me and you (my readers).

You can’t serve others if you neglect yourself. #wnjinspired

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Self care is crucial for a happy and healthy life. It’s also a main ingredient to success. Regrouping, rejuvenating and relaxing is a good thing! It allows your mind to rest and reset itself. If done correctly, taking a break from blogging (or any other job/occupation) helps refuel your mind and re-energize your body. When you hit the play button and get back in the game, you’re ready to share SO MUCH MORE amazing and useful content with your readers. And that’s what I intend to do, starting Monday….lol.

I learned SO much over the weekend, as well as throughout the summer. I now need time to sit with and sift through those lessons, tips and ideas and figure out how to implement them when I return. I’m already excited because I have so much helpful content and activities planned for WNJ and #FearlessWomanIam. But I must make self-care a priority in order to continue serving my readers and potential clients.

We must make self care a priority in order to continue serving others. #wnjinspired

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So tell me, what do you think about taking blog breaks or breaks in general? Have you been making self care a priority? Let me know!

In the meantime, I invite you to join me on my new Instagram page, as well as sign up for my newsletter. I’ll be updating and sending out information through both outlets this week, as well as when I return. As always, thanks for reading and following. I truly appreciate the support here on WNJ, through social media, and even through the emails. It’s such a blessing and helps get me through those “blah” days. I’ll be back tomorrow so until then, stay blessed and be safe…XO!

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Lifestyle | 5 Things Summer 2015 Taught Me

September 1, 2015 by Whitney 4 Comments

Summer 2015 is winding down and as I said in yesterday’s post, it’s been a GREAT one. Thinking back, so much has happen this summer. I’ve grown in many ways and through it all, I’ve learned so much. Here are 5 things Summer 2015 has taught me.

1. My family is the best. I’ve known this for years, but I really realized how awesome my family was this summer. We’ve been able to spend a lot of time together through traveling, working together or just hanging out, and it’s been great. I genuinely appreciate their crazy quirky ways (lol), they’re unwavering support, constructive criticism and the love they have (and constantly show) hubs. They treat him like one of their own and seeing that warms my heart. My family has become the (very) few friends I can totally depend on…and I’m OK with that.

5 lessons learned from Summer 2015.

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2. I really LOVE Twitter. I’ve been on Twitter for years, but this summer I’ve really become a twitter fan. There’s SO MUCH great information out there and there’s also a lot of funny, intriguing info too. A twitter feed is like a huge ongoing conversation; one big game of telephone. Once you sift through the “mess” on Twitter, it really is an awesome platform to promote, engage and learn from. Check out this post for more of my thoughts on social media.

3. I (really) can make a living being a blogger & social media consultant. It’s no secret that I’m pretty serious about this blogging thing. And over the past few months, I’ve been serious about helping others understand and use social media properly. I’ve been able to generate income from blogging and social media consulting and it’s been wonderful. I genuinely enjoy creating content and helping others with social media, so to make money while doing both has been nothing but a blessing. Hard work, research and taking your time before diving into a new venture are the key factors that have helped make blogging and social media “a business”.

4. Downsizing really isn’t that bad. In this post I shared that hubs and I were downsizing. This decision was a “gown up” decision and to be honest, I griped about it for months. I just wasn’t feeling the whole live with less thing. But after reconsideration and talks with hubs and my parents, I came to realize that downsizing was indeed a wise decision. Especially since hubs and I are planning to purchase our first home and have our first child in a few years. Now is the perfect time to save and learn to live with less, all while living in an affordable chic downtown-loft like space in one of the best counties in the country, close to my parents. In 2-3 years, we’ll have a nice down payment for the home of our dreams and less financial stress. After all that is the American Dream, right?

5. I love being married. I always knew I wanted to be a wife. I never really thought about my perfect wedding and really didn’t have an idea of when I wanted to be married. I just knew I wanted to be a wife. Being married to my best friend has been sheer joy, especially during summer 2015. It hasn’t been easy nor perfect, but it’s been a fun, uphill ride and I wouldn’t want to travel this road with anyone other than Darrius. This summer has taught us that with God at the head of our relationship, #TeamWest can make it through anything. We’re a solid team; partners ’til the end. He has truly displayed unconditional love all summer long, and I’d like to think I’ve done the same for him. 😉

So tell me, what do you think about my summer lessons? What are somethings you’ve learned during Summer 2015? Let me know!

Thanks for reading and for supporting me throughout the summer. My blog has really grown and I owe you, my readers, a HUGE thank you! I couldn’t have done it without you. Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

P.S. Don’t forget to linkup your recent OOTD to my Personal Style Linkup!

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5 Reasons to Attend Blogalicious 2015

August 28, 2015 by Whitney 6 Comments

I’m a people person who enjoys connecting and meeting like minded individuals who are passionate, purposeful and have the desire to generate income by doing what they love. That’s why I saved, planned and attended Blogalicious back in 2013. The conference was held in one of my favorite cities (Atlanta) and was by far one of the best and most confirming weekends I’ve had in a while.

After the conference, I was ready to put what I learned to use. A few months later my blog and business reached a place I’d once dreamed about. I owe a generous portion of my blogging and business success to what I learned (and implemented) at Blogaglious. I’m eager to attend this year and even more eager to do the work after I return. I already know that I’m going to learn so much, connect with several key influencers and spend time with a few of my favorite creative people. Here are 5 reasons you should attend the 2015 Blogalicous Conference this year.

1. You want to visit Baltimore. Granted I’m from this great city, but honestly Baltimore is such an amazing place. There’s good food, good shopping, enjoyable museums to visit, and did I mention good food?? Just come to B-more and thank me later.

2. You want to be great. Who doesn’t want to be GREAT?! The classes and workshops offered at Blogalicious are guaranteed to equip you with what you need to BE GREAT – just be ready to DO THE WORK. And the people conducting these classes and workshops are legit experts in their field. Can’t beat that!

3. You want to learn AND connect with influencers. Like I said before, those conducting the classes, courses and workshops, they know their stuff. Period. The best way to learn is to learn from the best. Blogalicious has that under control!

Marie Denee of The Curvy Fashionista | Met at 2013 the conference & have the pleasure of being apart of the TCF Team.

5 reasons I’ll be attending @beblogalicious! #BYOE

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4. You want to find a mentor. During this weekend there will be countless opportunities to connect and interact with key influencers. It’s the perfect place to find a mentor, coach or even an accountability partner. Don’t miss out on your opportunity. Be genuine and direct; find your mentor.

5. You want to learn how to make coins. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t like making coins/cash/money. If you don’t, this isn’t the place for you. If you’re like me and want to know how to generate income from doing something your passionate and serious about, Blogalicious is the place for you. Again, the key influencers will set you up and provide you with a blueprint so to speak on how to make, keep making and even invest your coins.

So tell me, will you be attending Blogalicious 2015? Have any questions about it? Let me know!

I hope I’ve convinced you to join me in Baltimore this year! If you want to continue being great and have the desire to find/realize your purpose, as well as learn how to make coins, attend Blogalicious. It’s an investment you won’t be sorry you made.

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Happy Birthday to Me + 50 Life Goals

August 11, 2015 by Whitney 19 Comments

I’m so grateful for another year of life and while I have many emotions about entering the last year of my 20’s, I’m truly excited about what this year has in store. This year I’ve decided to create and share my 7-year Life Goals List, which is inspired by, Maya Elious. I like to put my goals and aspirations in writing because I find that doing so helps keep me accountable. When I saw that Maya created her Life Goals List, I was intrigued. I knew that I had to create one, with my own twist, for my next birthday. That said, here are my 50 Life Goals List to achieve in 7 years.

Everyone should create a Life Goal List. Have you?

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LIFE + EXPERIENCE

Continue Building a Solid Relationship with God – IN THE PROCESS & MAKING PROGRESS
Join Bridgeway Community Church – IN THE PROCESS
- Join & Commit to a Ministry
Expand whitneynicjames.com & Continue to Publish Consistent, Valuable and Useful Content
Continue to Grow a Successful (and Lucrative) Business that Helps & Motivates Women
Complete My Undergraduate Degree & Receive my Master’s
Continue to Invest in my Entrepreneurship Endeavors
- purchase a MacBook – DONE (Spring 2017)
- new camera & lens – DONE (Spring2016)
- find a necessary coach/enroll in necessary classes
Attend Mega Fest (TX)
Write & Publish My 1st Book
Interview & Post Interviews of at least 50 (More) Inspirational & Fearless Women
Host a FWIAM Event – DONE (Spring 2017)
Create the FWIAM Website (or Landing Page) – DONE (Summer 2017)
Host a #WNJStyle Event
Host a Vision Board Event – DONE (Fall 2017)
Complete Another #ThriftwithNic Event/or Tour
Meet Myleik Teele – DONE (Fall 2019)
Meet T.D. Jakes – DONE
Meet Mattie and Maya – DONE
Travel to London & Maldives
Travel to an Island I’ve Never Visited – DONE (Punta Cana Summer 2017)
Travel to LA – DONE (Summer 2018)
Receive my Social Media Marketing Certification – DONE (March 2016)
Complete 1 Book a Month – DONE (Started reading 3 books a month in January 2017)
Find a Charity to Commit & Donate to Regularly
- Prostate Cancer
- Generosity Global – DONE (Supporting since 2016)

FINANCIAL + BUSINESS

Pay Off & Clear My Credit Report
- Student Loan(s)
- Credit Card Debt(s)
Learn About Stocks & Investing
Buy Stock
- Google
- Facebook
- Apple
Make $1,000 – DONE (Summer 2017)
Make $5,000
Save $3,000 – (DONE in 2020)
Create Thrifting 101 Seminars/Courses
Create at least Streams of Income – DONE (Summer 2017 – WNJ, FWIAM, Social Media Management & eBay)
Create a Nonprofit Organization
Purchase FWIAM Domain Name (and Social Media Handles) – DONE

FAMILY

Have at Least 1 Healthy Child
Own a Home in Howard County
- Preferably Columbia, MD or Fulton, MD
Take 2 Vacations a Year (Road-trip, Cruise, or by Plane)
Send my Parents on a Trip
Send my Grandmother on a Trip
Pay for Taylor’s Sweet 16 Birthday Party
Save “x” Amount for Taylor’s 20th Birthday

HEALTH

Create a Consistent Workout Routine – DONE (Created & Started in July 2016)
Practice Yoga Consistently
Get Back to Swimming & Pole Dancing Classes
Complete 7-Day Fast (Fruit, Veggies, Water & Fish Only)
Complete 7-Day Day Vegetarian Challenge
Start Running – DONE (Started July 2016)
Enroll & Complete Boxing Class
Train for a 5K Race
Get Regular Massages & Facials – DONE (Started January 2016)
Drink 1 Gallon of Water a Day – DONE (Started Spring 2017)

So tell me, what do you think about my 7-year life goals? What are some of your 7-year life goals? Let me know!

For months I’ve been determined to create a better life for myself and my family. In doing this I’ve vowed to live a life of purpose and to live life with intention. I no longer want to wait until I’m 30 to start going after certain goals. As always, thanks for reading. Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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#WNJInspired | Lessons Learned from Devon Franklin at the Merge Tour 2015 in Baltimore, MD

August 5, 2015 by Whitney 2 Comments

This past weekend I attend the Merge Tour 2015 at Empowerment Temple in my hometown Baltimore, Maryland. The summit/symposium was created by producer and executive, Dr. Holly Carter. According to it’s mission statement, THE MERGE was created to educate, empower and inspire creative men and women of faith to do business in entertainment, by providing a platform to network, partner, and learn from leading entertainers and industry executives.

Actress & Entertainer | LisaRaye McCoy

After attending their Baltimore tour stop, I can honestly say their mission was indeed accomplished! I was able to hear entertainers and entertainment executives LaurieAnna Gibson, Mikki Taylor, Phil Thorton, Kelly Griffin, Lisa Raye, and DeVon Franklin. I learned so much from each speaker and a lot was confirmed about my purpose and plan. My husband was my photographer that day and he too gained a wealth of knowledge and inspiration from the event.

While all the speakers were amazing, DeVon Franklin’s message resonated with us the most. He spoke on merging and being produced by faith (also the title of his latest book). Here’s a recap, shared on Periscope first then uploaded on Youtube, of the 3 lessons we learned form the summit, but more specifically from DeVon Franklin.

GREAT recap from @DeVonFranklin on how to succeed in life and business.

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In case you missed any of the Merge Tour 2015 lessons/takeaways from DeVon Franklin, here are the 3 points mentioned in the video above:

1. Create and Publish Purposeful Content

2. Always Be Prepared

3. Be Ready to Merge/Move

So tell me, is the Merge Tour/Summit an event you would be interested in attending? What do you think about the lessons we learned? Let me know below!

Darrius and I are beyond thrilled and blessed that sharing this broadcast on Periscope inspired so many people. That’s the main reason I wanted to share those lessons and our Merge Tour 2015 experience here on WNJ (and via Twitter and Instagram).

At the end of the day it’s not about me or us; it’s about connecting with you all on an uplifting and inspiring level. Thank you for reading and watching and feel free to share this video/post with others. Spread the positivity! Until tomorrow, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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#WNJPlaylist| 5 Songs to Motivate You Everyday

July 24, 2015 by Whitney 2 Comments

If there’s one thing I know for sure it’s that music has the power to motivate and inspire! Weather at work, in the car or home, I listen to music everyday. My taste in music is very random, but I like that. You can catch me listening to Nicki Minaj and 2Pac in the morning, Kirk Franklin at work, Bon Jovi during my lunch break, and Tyrese and Boney James in the evening to help me unwind. Music is an important part of my life and ever since I was young I’ve been a fan of all genres. So today I want to share 5 songs to motivate you everyday. By the way, I listen to these songs 7 days a week.

5 songs that will inspire you everyday. #wnjplaylist

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1. Be Alright, Kehlani. I stumbled upon Kehlani and this song when I was searching for new artists on iTunes. I literally listen to the song every day before work. Here’s the one part that sticks out to me most; When the tide gets high, you just get low. Hold your breath and take it slow. Yes I might get wet, I might get thrown. But I’ll resurface all on my own.

2. Deceleration (This is It!), Kirk Franklin. This song has been a favorite for years. Whenever I listen I feel like I can conquer the world; I can do anything! It’s a reminder that God has equipped me with everything I need to live the life I want and deserve, despite my past or future obstacles. That’s what that song gives me and that’s why I listen every day; for a helpful reminder and constant motivation.

3. God in Me, Mary Mary. These singing sisters struck gold with this song! The title says it all: (it’s the) God in Me. This song reminds us that although we may think somebody has it all, we can’t forget that it’s really the spirit (of God) in them that makes their life that great.

4. Moment for Life, Nicki Minaj. Who didn’t love this song when it came out?! Moment for Life is one of those classics that will never get old. It’s a real “feel good” song laced with timely lyrics and life lessons, from both Nicki and Drake.

5. Living on a Prayer, Bon Jovi. This song is another classic. If you want to feel inspired and groove to a good beat, this song is for you! Wasn’t this like the teen anthem of the 80’s?! #LOVEIT

So tell me, what songs motivate and inspire you? Do you listen to any of the songs I mentioned often? Let me know!

As always, thanks for reading. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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#FearlessWoman Feature | Shanna of Because Shanna Said So

July 22, 2015 by Whitney 6 Comments

Today’s #FearlessWoman is style blogger Shanna of Because Shanna Said So. I was immediately drawn to Shanna’s fashion-forward and relatable style, but as I started following her even more I found myself falling for her fun and down-to-earth personality. I also admire a woman who loves her husband and kids and Shanna definitely fits that to a tee!

Shanna has been blogging for a while now and although in her latest post she let us know that she’s taking a well needed blogging break, I still had to introduce her to you all because the content that is up and live is great. I appreciate her honesty in letting her readers know that it was time for her to take a timeout – I respect that and totally understand the need to take a breather here every now and then. Enjoy this interview and be sure to catch up on her latest posts; I’m sure you’ll be inspired!

What’s a typical day for Shanna?

Right now, because we are in the summer months, I am running around to different camps for my girls, having breakfast/lunch dates with my girlfriends in between, pool time, spending weekends with friends and family and squeezing in work/blogging. This is a busy time, but my favorite. I am enjoying every single crazy & chaotic moment.

What inspired you to create Because Shanna Said So?

One of my IRL life friends mentioned that I should start a blog four years ago to share my style and affordable finds. I truly started it on a whim and as hobby when I was still working full time in marketing. I am mostly self taught and have grown on my own by making friends in the blogging community.

Who are your top 3 women inspirations, famous or non-famous, and why?

My mother, grandmother and best friend from elementary school because each have distinct characteristics of being both nurturing and strong minded women. They have always been there for me and believed in me no matter what.

One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs?

There is a LOT of competition out there. Find your voice and believe in yourself. If you love what you do and stay humble things will work themselves out. Don’t give up if you have a passion. And remember, it does take money to make money.

What is your definition of a #FearlessWoman?

To not worry about what others will think and just be YOU!

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

I definitely don’t see myself still blogging. Hopefully, a full-time stay at home mom watching my girls excel in academics and sports. This “blog” world is short term. What matters most to me is my family and being mom.

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