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Personal Style | I am a Fearless Woman + OOTD Linkup

June 8, 2015 by Whitney 31 Comments

If you’ve been following along with me for a while you may have seen the #FWIAM hashtag floating around. I actually introduced the series back in March to celebrate Women’s History Month. To my pleasant surprise the series was a hit! Since then I’ve been asked when I’m going to do another series like that. Well, the wait is over. I’m bringing back my #FWIAM series for this summer! I have a plethora of women entrepreneurs, bloggers, educators, mothers, wives and single women lined up and ready to share their fearless stories with you all. I cannot wait!

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Dress: Junarose // Hat: Flea Market // Flats: Steve Madden (similar)

I am a #fearlesswoman

Why is this movement so important to me? I feel it’s imperative to celebrate, uplift and inspire women, as well as show that being fearless in today’s society is the only way to achieve your goals and reach your fullest potential. Ever since I turend 28, I’ve really been embracing my fearless journey. The journey has been paved with many bumps, u-turns and lessons, but I’m fearlessly determined to continue living a life full of purpose. I want to be an example to all women that adapting a #FealressWoman attitude does wonders for your confidence, productivity, and others.

As women, it’s our responsibility to uplift, celebrate and inspire other women. #FWIAM

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I’ve been blessed to be surrounded by such amazing women growing up. My mother and grandmother are the source of my fearless inspiration. They’re women of faith and distinction, but above all they’re women of purpose. Watching them throughout the years has helped shape me into the woman I am. I only wish I can be half of what they’ve been to me to my children one day. My younger sister is also one of the main reasons I’ve vowed to live this #FWIAM lifestyle. I want her to see me as an inspiration. I want to show Taylor that living a purpose driven life is the only life to live.

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Watch: Charming Charlie // Studs: Target // Bless the World Armband: Bridgeway Community Church (Columbia, MD)

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Speaking of Fearless Women, meet Sandy of Sandy a la Mode. She and her adorably stylish mini-me were my favorite linkups from last week! I’m a sucker for leopard print and gold, so their outfits stuck out to me for sure. I love seeing Sandy’s outfits and when her little princess gets in on the stylish action, I love it even more. How cute are they?!

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So tell me, what is your definition of a #FearlessWoman? Let me know below!

Feel free to join the 300+ Fearless Woman Private Facebook Group, here. We’d love to have you! Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Linkups: How I Spring, Monday Mingle, Sophisticated Style, Lisa a la Mode, WIW, Let it Shine, Style Me Wednesday

Filed Under: Inspiration, Style Tagged With: #FearlessWoman, blogger style, inspiration, Plus Size Outfit

#WNJInspired | How to Get and Stay Motivated

June 2, 2015 by Whitney 9 Comments

It seems like just yesterday I was posting about vision boards and sharing some of my goals for 2015. Looking back, I am very pleased with my progress. I’ve been able to accomplish a number of the goals I set, and most of them I’ve checked off earlier than expected. However, there are still quite a few things left on my “to accomplish” list/vision board. Learning how to stay motivated to do so isn’t always easy, but it has gotten easier as I’ve gotten older. Here are 5 tips to help you get and stay motivated!

How to Stay Motivated

1. Write it down. | This tip is crucial, and it works! I’m always writing (or typing in my phone) something down. From personal thoughts, to tasks or grocery lists, to blog/business ideas, I’m what you call a “jotter”. I’m always jotting something down. I guess being a writer, it comes naturally. But lately I’ve taken writing things down more seriously. Thanks to Myleik Teele’s Learn More to Earn More Journal, writing down lists is much more effective and specific these days. Using this journal, I follow Myleik’s suggestions on “how to” journal and make lists. One side of the journal is for lists/tasks, and the other is for ideas, reminders and random thoughts. The journal comes with an in depth outline from Myliek, so following this was easy. Writing things down gets the ideas out of your head, on paper, and holds you accountable to make it happen. Try it.

Writing things down gets ideas out of your head, on paper and holds you accountable. #wnjinspired

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2. Find & Stick to a Routine. | Like most humans, I’m a creature of habit. I thrive on routine. It keeps me on track and on task. Creating a routine and sticking to it is a sure way to stay motivated. Sure, things happen and plans change. When that happens roll with it and do your best to get back to your regularly scheduled program. Krystal of the Feisty House has some great tips on routines and staying on task!

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3. Find a Mentor. | I don’t know how many times I’ve been told to “find a mentor in your field.” For years it was tough to find someone I could trust and someone I actually looked up to and believed in enough to be a mentor. I did eventually find that person, thank goodness, and I actually have several mentors to this day. Some of my mentors are aware, while others aren’t. I call those my “virtual/in my head” mentors. I follow them on social media for inspiration, watch their (FREE) webinars and videos on YouTube, and actually tweet out to them from time to time. Having both types of mentors is extremely helpful and imperative in the quest to stay motivated. If you’re looking for a mentor, make sure their goals and morals are aligned with yours. Send a short email or message, letting them know a little about you and how you’d like them to help. I’ve found that people are willing and available to help, but you have to make the first move. Ask and you shall receive.

5 ways to get and STAY motivated. #wnjinspired

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4. Stop Watching TV. | This has been tough for me to do, but I can already see how it’s helped keep me motivated on my goals. I’m a huge TV buff, especially reality TV. And while it’s a struggle for me to peel myself away from a show, in order to accomplish my goals I have to spend more time working on that than feeding my mind with what’s on TV. I’ve started recording my “must watch” shows and binge watching them on the weekends. That way I’m using the time during the week to get more work done, but I still allow myself some time to enjoy my guilty pleasures. I’m still working on this…the struggle is real!How to Stay Motivated

5. Revisit & Tweak Your Goals. | Goals are great, but there maybe times you need to change your approach (or certain goals in general). That said, don’t be afraid to revisit your vision board or goal list and tweak somethings. As you go throughout the year you may find some goals need more time than you allotted for. Tweak it. You may have a listed goal that isn’t in line with your current vision. Tweak it and make the new goal fit your lifestyle. It’s OK to change/or rework your goals. As long as your constantly going after something positive and trying to better yourself, that’s all that matters.


So tell me, how do you stay motivated? What are some tips you have on the topic? Let me know below! 

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Filed Under: Inspiration, Style Tagged With: blogging, inspiration, motivation

#WNJInspired | 2 Years Down, Through Sickness & Health

May 12, 2015 by Whitney 24 Comments

Yesterday hubby and I celebrated our 2 year anniversary. Thinking back on our year, I am extremely blessed and thankful. Last year we both dealt with some health issues and to be honest, I encountered some dark days. Yes, I broke down a time or two. However, it wasn’t because I was sick. When I’m sick, I can handle it. I roll with the punches and keep getting up. But when my husband was diagnosed with diabetes, I was heartbroken. I was numb.

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Realizing that your best friend and partner in life is sick puts life in perspective real quick. It makes you stronger as a person, but also as a unit. You have to be strong for the other person and deal with your breakdowns in private. God knows there were times I thought I wasn’t going to make it, but by His grace I remained strong, my faith tested but not lost.

I’ve never seen him in the hospital and I’ve never witnesses him being somewhat helpless. I was scared, so of course the first thing I did was call my mother. Thank God for a praying and compassionate mother. I needed to know how to be strong for him. I’m always used to him being super man, handling everything and taking care of me. After talking through things with my mother and praying on my own, I realized that I could be there for him because I had to. There was no option. I made a vow to be with him through sickness and health and while that part came faster than I was prepared for, I was equipped to be his rock.

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Through dealing with Darrius’ diagnoses, we have learned quite a bit, about ourselves and our marriage. Here’s a look at 3 things we learned:

Darrius’ 2 Year Lessons

1. Put yourself in their shoes. 

2. Date your spouse.

3. Trust the pace of your relationship; move at your own pace, with guidance from the Lord.

Whitney’s 2 Year Lessons

1.  Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”— I Corinthians 13: 7-8 

2. Pay attention to your spouse. 

3. Marriage is what you make it.

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Trust the pace of your relationship; move at your own pace, with guidance from the Lord.

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So tell me, what are some lessons you’ve learned in marriage along the way? Let me know!

As Darrius and I continue to thrive as a couple, we always remember to put God first and always have faith. My husband is getting healthier everyday – he is not allowing a diagnoses to control his life. Together, we’re fighting and we will be victorious! Marriage is fun, hard, worth it, but above all is it’s a blessing. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

** Linkups: Monday Mash-Up **

Filed Under: Inspiration, Style Tagged With: faith, inspiration, love, marriage

#FearlessWoman Feature | Marie of The Curvy Fashionista

March 31, 2015 by Whitney 4 Comments

Today is the last day of my #FearlessWoman series. It’s been such a joy introducing you to 9 fearless, dynamic and inspirational women who have and continue to inspire me daily. My final feature is none other than the plus size blogging diva and mogul in the making, Marie Denee.

Founder of The Curvy Fashionista, this Atlanta based full-time blogger is a go-getter, a patient mentor, and genuinely sweet person. Marie is a girl’s girl and strongly believes in girl power and women empowerment. She wants to see us all win! Her authenticity, drive, and confidence serves as inspiration to many and it’s my honor to share her interview today. Enjoy and thank you for embracing this series in honor of Women’s History Month.

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What’s a typical day for Marie?

Being a full time blogger is nowhere near as glam as it may seem! LOL Most of the time, I am at home, in my scarf, with some type of maxi dress on! Bra definitely off! I am glued to my desk, researching, writing, strategizing, and plotting! There is hardly any off time for me! Although I am trying to get better at leaving the office before 7 pm! LOL I try!

But my day? I am usually (or I do try) to be up by 7 a.m. and checking my posts to see if it went live as scheduled, go into promo mode, then I check my emails! I probably have a few calls scheduled for the day. From there it is a toss up! Depending on what is trending on social, what I have planned for the week, each day is a new one! I kind of have learned to love that.

What inspired you to create The Curvy Fashionista?

It was actually random. I started it with a completely different goal in mind. I just finished my MBA in Marketing and just KNEW I was going to have a physical store and work it out! Well, with various turns of events, I launched a very short lived online store, and then my blog started to take off! Over the years, it has evolved into its own, and I have been along for the ride! Talk about a walk of faith. When I lost my job, I dove head first into growing it, not knowing where it would lead me… from there, it has become a business, an entity, a community, a destination! I am grateful for this!

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Who are your top 3 women inspirations, famous or non famous, and why?

Three? You know, this is hard to answer, only because I pull inspiration from sooo many women- known and unknown, family and friends, mentors and new women on the scene! I would have to say that what they all have in common is moxie, drive, and some form of strength and the audacity to chase their dreams or persevere through life’s challenges! THIS is what inspires and drives me. I love networking and supporting other women- it is sooo awesome and inspiring to find women who make it work! They motivate me to do the same!

One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs? 

Find your own path/lane/purpose and do not look to others to compare, check for, or to imitate. We all have our own path, purpose, and walk. We also do not know what they are dealing with and have struggled through to get to where they are. Nor does anyone know YOUR story. While things may look ro seem to be soooo fabulous on the outside, they could be dealing with things and keeping a brave face. Also, checking for others is a waste of time and energy that you can be using to build your own dream and empire! When you learn this, supporting others, helping others, and mentoring others comes easily and without pause!

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Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

You know what? I have a few ideas and goals around that, but God willing, I see myself and my brand growing to levels I have dreamt. I see my personal love life develop into something tangible and exciting! I have buried and busied myself in my work that now, I am ready for love and life and fun, in different ways. So honestly, that is something I find myself thinking about a lot! Who knows where the brand will be! I have plans, but I have learned that when man plans, God laughs… so who knows! LOL.

Keep Up With Marie

Blog // Facebook // Instagram // Twitter

Filed Under: Inspiration, Style Tagged With: blogger style, Entrepreneurship, inspiration

#FearlessWoman Feature | Viki of Be Victorious Prep & The Bravado

March 30, 2015 by Whitney 6 Comments

Today’s #FearlessWoman feature is a dear friend. With 12 years of pageant experience, Victory Mohamed, also known as Viki, is one of the most fearless, hard working women I know. While her expertise is in the pageant industry, Viki also has a wealth of knowledge on several topics like public relations, current events, fashion and entrepreneurship. She’s anything but one dimensional and that is one of the many qualities I love about her.

I’ve had the pleasure of working with this former Miss Baltimore one-on-one on several occasions. Watching her transform the lives of so many young girls, including my younger sister, has truly been a blessing. A passionate, family oriented and strong entrepreneurs, it’s my pleasure to introduce you all to her today. Enjoy her interview below and be inspired!

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What’s a typical day for Viki?

I typically try to start each day with a small workout and I take a quick peek at my schedule to make sure I am aware of what is coming up for the day. Before getting to the coaching studio, I spend a few hours reviewing emails and doing a lot of work for clients (this could be searching for appearances for them, reviewing paperwork, drafting speeches etc). Once at the studio, I can spend 4-8 hours with clients, one-on-one in personal sessions. Afterwards, you can bet that I rush home to spend a few hours with my husband and family…but then it is back to the laptop to do more research, client work, blogging, and whatever else it takes to keep my brand rolling. Once I’m ready to shut down for the evening, I try to clear my mind by creating a checklist of things to do the next day because if I don’t, I will lay in bed all night thinking about it!

What inspired you to create Be Victorious Prep & The Bravado?

I was inspired to create Be Victorious Prep because I found that while I was improving each year in pageants, my peers were not. I was breaking into the top ten, then the top 5, and then winning, while others remained lost and had no guidance to move ahead. I wanted to share what I had learned over the years while competing, so I just started dropping kind words of advice…and the girls started winning. After a few girls, I realized that ‘hey, I might be good at this’! Then I started to put things together on my own – it was my success in pageants that taught me discipline, the value of hard work, and the power of focus, so I translated that into a business model: I wanted girls to be victorious in whatever they set their mind to, pageants or not – I wanted to help girls, just like myself, be victorious in everything they do. Soon after, I started branding myself and boom, here we are in 2015 with over 60 wins to the Be Victorious name.

Once I started to become involved in the coaching process, girls started to ask me for wardrobe advice. This advice included what they should wear to orientation to what they should wear in competition. I quickly realized that instead of having them shop on their own (and bring back the craziest things that I just made them return anyway), I would set up my own shop and provide exactly what was competition worthy and attention getting (in a positive way). My siblings and I now provide competition clothing, from gowns to suits to jewelry, and everyday boutique wear, for appearances, girls night out, and more (at The Bravado). Most specifically, I was inspired by the idea that if I wanted the girls to be victorious in everything they do, they had to look good doing it – dressing for success soon became part of our life.

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Who are your top 3 women inspirations, famous or non-famous, and why?

Mom: I think my mom is a giant. She came to this country when she was 17 and she quickly decided to work on losing her accent. She was driven to move her family forward – when her brothers and father were buying homes and apartments to fix and sell/rent, she was the one going to the library, asking questions, working to figure out how to do paperwork legally, traveling to courthouses and handling all official family matters, all before she was 21. To me, she is a prime example of ‘if you want something badly enough, you need to work hard and get it done’. From a very young age she taught me to set goals, weigh the pros and cons, make a list of how I was going to accomplish that goal and to work non-stop until I succeed. She is my rock, my soul, and the very fiber of my being.

Cheryl Wood: Words cannot express how Cheryl has influenced my life. I first met Cheryl when I had literally just started my entrepreneurial journey…and she was sort of starting her own journey with a tee shirt company as well. She spoke with such conviction about entrepreneurship, finding your passion and working it, and about the power of believing in yourself. She also talked about balancing motherhood with her dreams; something I was definitely thinking about for the future. She soon invited me to participate in a magazine with her and on a radio show with her – for once, my age did not matter to someone. She saw me for my work, my passion, and my abilities. She encouraged to me to think bigger and to make things happen. She probably doesn’t know it, but her charisma, passion, and social media posts invigorate me everyday!

Stephanie McMahon: For as long as I can remember, I’ve been a WWE wrestling fan. While this is not typical of a “pageant girl”, I have always admired how Stephanie approached being a woman in a man’s world. I’ve also admired that she allows her work to speak for itself – just because her parents own the company did not mean that she would not have to get a degree and work her way up in the company. It was her hard work and creative abilities that took the company from a household name here in the US and Canada to an international household name and respected brand. More specifically, she inspires me because of her ability to balance everything so well – she’s a mom, an entrepreneur, a wife, a TV villain and more; I find myself admiring her because I want to find the same balance in my own life and find the same success as well. She has created opportunities for herself and her company where many others did not see fit and thus, she has helped propel her company forward as a Special Olympics Ambassador, an anti-bullying organization, a pro-literacy organization and more. I admire her work, values, and ability to balance it all. She is my guide when people say “this is not your place” or “I do not see how this can fit”; she made it happen and so can I.

One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs? 

You could be the youngest in the room, you could be the only woman in the room – it does not matter if you are prepared, have passion, and have the discipline to see something through. Work hard and never let anyone tell you that you cannot do something because you are a woman. Womanpower is indeed an amazing thing, never forget that. And please, when you recognize your own womanpower, do not take too long to turn around and empower others.

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Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

(Yikes…) I want to be the Executive Director of my own International Empowerment Academy. I want to empower women (and men) around the world to find their passions, to live it every single day, and to turn around and empower others as soon and as often as they can. I want to share the message of ‘be victorious in everything you do’ around the world because I believe that no one should limit themselves. I believe that no one should let what people say define them – you create your own definition of success, power, prestige, life…and being victorious. So…in five years, I expect to be well on the path of empowering others worldwide!

Keep Up With Viki

Be Victorious // The Bravado // Facebook // Blog

Filed Under: Inspiration, Style Tagged With: Entrepreneurship, inspiration, pageants

#FearlessWoman Feature | Jhéanell of Jolie Bloom & Belle Jhéanell

March 27, 2015 by Whitney 7 Comments

I’m always inspired by working women who are also mothers and wives. Juggling it all is not easy, but a #FearlessWoman gets it done! Jhéanell Adams is the creator of Jolie Bloom, an eco-luxe brand specializing in hand crafted beauty products that are simply divine! I’ve tried the Caribbean Coconut Body Scrub (review coming soon) and immediately fell in love! This working Mom is also the creative blogger behind Belle Jhéanell. 

With a heart of gold, a strong business mind and a passion for beuaty, Jhéanell is definitely an entrepreneur on the rise. Enjoy her interview below and be inspired! 

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What’s a typical day for Jhéanell?

Morning: A typical day starts with me seeing my sister off to school and then trying to get as much work done as possible before my son wakes up. This usually consists of responding to emails, sending out tracking numbers or finishing up a blog post that I may have started the night before. Once my son is up, we shower, eat breakfast and usually he wants to play, cuddle or have me read books to him.

Afternoon: One a good day he’ll take his afternoon nap and I’ll try to get some blogging done or make products to fulfill orders for Jolie Bloom. If he doesn’t take a nap, I give him about an hour of tv time while I continue to work. Afterwards we do some learning activities and do a few educational sing a longs.

Late afternoon/Early Evening:  I leave to get my sister from school and drop Jolie Bloom packages off at the post office for delivery that have been packed the night before. If I happen to have a cute outfit, I’ll also ask my sister to photograph it for me during this time of the day for a Lookbook post on Belle Jheanell.com

Evening: Once we’re back home, I start dinner and check my sisters homework before we sit down to eat as a family. However, if I have a shift at my part time job, I make dinner and then run out for a couple hours.

Night: Once I return from work, my husband and I stay up packing boxes in preparation for me to ship them the following afternoon. If we don’t have any orders, I do research for upcoming blog posts before getting some “me time” (catching up on my favorite shows) after everyone goes to bed.

 What inspired you to create Belle Jhéanell & Jolie Bloom?

I originally started blogging back in 2008 as a way to organize my wedding inspirations (pre-Pinterest days) and journal through the process. Once my wedding was over, I continued to use the space to document my life. Having been blogging for most of my adulthood,  I’ve shared many things from the preparation of my wedding, to life as a newlywed and my excitement after learning that I was going to be a mother for the first time.

Unfortunately, my daughter was born prematurely and passed away shortly thereafter. It was the hardest time of my life and through sharing my experience on my blog, I was able to gain a great addition to my already amazing support system. Thankfully, I went on to had my son but I felt as though my site had become somber as I’d been writing through my grief. I eventually decided to rebrand it as Belle Jheanell where I regularly share outfit posts as well as my knowledge of beauty and passion for natural living.

After gaining back my confidence and wanting to do something meaningful to honor my daughters short life, I then created Jolie Bloom which is a brand of eco luxury personal care products. Having gone through such a traumatic experience, I have to say that it feels amazing that so many people know Jolie’s story and understand how huge of a role she plays in my life although she’s not physically with us any longer.

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Who are your top 3 women inspirations, famous or non-famous, and why?

My top 3 women inspirations are my mother, Oprah Winfrey and Myleik Teele. All of these women have been knocked down many times but have made the choice over and over to keep going.

My mother was the person who inspired me to become an entrepreneur after witnessing her from her own business during the earlier part of my childhood. She believes in me more than I believe in myself at time and is such a cheerleader for Jolie Bloom.

Oprah is self explanatory but the fact that a poor little girl from Mississippi has built such an a billionaire dollar empire is nothing short of incredible.

Myleik’s work ethic is unlike anything I’ve seen in a while. Having met her when Curlbox was only two months old and seeing where it is now is mind blowing!

One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs? 

“Leap and a net will appear”, it’s my favorite quote by John Burroughs . You don’t have to have every single detail in place to start your business. Do you research, get started and you’ll be surprised how things start to line up.

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Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

In 5 years I imagine that Jolie Bloom would have grown substantially and will be housed in headquarter facility containing our office, production and shipping space. I’d love to be a couple hundred retail stores around the world by then. My dream ever since I was a little girl has been to be an author, so I’d love to have at least two books published within the next 5 years. I haven’t shared this publicly as yet, but I’m currently working on my first children’s book.

As for Belle Jheanell, I still imagine that I’ll have it as a creative outlet and journal. Most importantly, I love that people go back in my archives and are able to see my growth and how I decided to use my pain to fuel my passions and help others.

In my personal life, I’d love to have another child or two by then. Ultimately, I see myself continuing to be family oriented while building my empire and growing even closer to God.

Keep Up With Jhéanell

Blog // Jolie Bloom // Instagram // Twitter

Filed Under: Inspiration, Style Tagged With: beauty, beauty products, Entrepreneurship, inspiration

#FearlessWoman Feature | Lacey of A Lacey Perspective

March 26, 2015 by Whitney 2 Comments

Being a blogger in the DMV, I’ve met many stylish and ambitious like-minded creatives. Lacey Faeh is one of those people. When I decided to start blogging I was beyond excited to join the DMV blogging group, CapFABB. Meeting Lacey, the co-founder of the group, was a joy. I admired she and her colleague for creating a group dedicated to bringing area bloggers/creatives together to “collaborate, learn and grow”.

As the years went on, I began to follow A Lacey Perspective and through her posts and attending the CapFABB meetups/classes, I found myself learning so much about both style and blogging. She’s an excellent content creator and has a knack for helping bloggers reach their full potential. I’m sure you’ll find her interview interesting and motivating. Enjoy!

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What’s a typical day for Lacey?

There is no such thing as a typical day for me. From A Lacey Perspective to my consulting to CapFABB each day there is something new that I need to tackle. Most days start with a latte and reading through blogs. Followed by emails galore. Second half of my day is dedicated to my clients whether it is logo/site redesign, photography, meetings on site or digital strategy. The last steps of my is dedicated to my blog and CapFABB. Last but definitely not least… wine. Lots of wine.

What inspired you to create A Lacey Perspective, CapFABB & ALP Consulting?

The blog is about to hit its 5 year anniversary and I cannot believe it! I started the blog because I felt like DC needed help on the style front and I was in need of a place to feel creative back in my politico days.

CapFABB just turned 4 and we now have over 500 members! It is insane! Shameless plug… you should definitely join! CapFABB was something I felt the DC blogging community needed, a place where we can all come together, learn from one another and show the world that DC has style bloggers with unique voices.

ALP Consulting is my newest baby. Almost 3 years old and was created when I realized there are so many small businesses here in DC who don’t know of the power a social presence can have. I worked in the digital space in politics for over 5 years so my experience has translated beautifully to restaurants, malls and boutiques. One other arm of ALPC is helping bloggers make their blogs a business. This part is such a blast! I love brainstorming with clients about how to take their blog to the next level and share my experiences. Lastly, one of my favorite services, is styling. There is nothing better than helping a woman realize the potential in her closet or find a that perfect dress for an upcoming event.

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Who are your top 3 women inspirations, famous or non-famous, and why?

My mother for her strength. Michelle Obama for her perfect blending of fashion and leadership. Olivia Palmemo for her impeccable style.

One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs? 

Just jump! Whether you are looking to blog or start your own small business they only way to see if it will work is to give it a shot. So stop over analyzing all the ways it can go wrong and dive in head first!

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Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 

I see ALPC growing to a medium size digital firm with clients of all varieties and sizes.

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#FearlessWoman Feature | Dionne of Styled by Dionne

March 24, 2015 by Whitney 4 Comments

I’ve had the pleasure of interviewing today’s #FearlessWoman on WNJ a time before. Dionne Dean is the brains and beauty behind Styled by Dionne and author of  ‘Make Your Closet Pay‘. Not only is her energy and smile infectious, but her wanderlust nature and passion for life is incredible. I admire her spirit, pay it forward mentality and above all, her tenacious work ethic. This thrift, vintage and “never pay retail” queen should definitely be on your radar, if she isn’t already. Enjoy her interview below; I’m sure you’ll be inspired to travel and live a fabulous life just as Dionne does!

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What’s a typical day for Dionne?

Is there such a thing as a “typical” day in the life of any entrepreneur, LOL! I wake around 4 or 5 to spend time in prayer. I find that if I don’t spend that time in prayer and meditation to get focused and centered on the purpose for my business, I’ll be rocked to and fro by the days events. Once the hubs is out the door, I head into my office and spend about an hour checking emails and social media. I work on getting all my eBay orders and thrift boxes together the night before so that I can be ready to hit the post office when it opens at 9:30. After the post office, I head to 3 or 4 thrift stores and am done by noon or 1 pm. If I have a client, I head to whichever store I’ve chosen for them an hour prior our appointment to set up their fitting room and alert the sales staff that I have a client coming. If not, I head home to upload items in eBay or spend time reaching out to potential clients.

Now, if’s it’s a morning when I have my ‘Good Morning Texas’ beauty segment, the day goes a bit different. I’m still up at 4 or 5, but I usually check on my models, go over my product details (pre-playing the segment in the bathroom mirror LOL) and selecting my outfit. I’ve tried getting my look together the night before, but I’m one of those people who has to see how I feel before I get dressed 😉

2. What inspired you to create Styled by Dionne & publish Make Your Closet Pay?

My undergraduate is in Clothing, Textiles and Merchandising and my goal was to become a buyer and travel the world purchasing beautiful clothing. However, after volunteering at various community agencies in Atlanta, I decided to switch gears. I moved to Chicago, completed an AmeriCorps Year of Service and got my Masters in Cultural and Educational Policy. I spent 6-7 years preparing high school, college-aged and graduate students for entry into the world of work and realized the one thing we didn’t spend enough time on was how to dress when you actually GOT the job. There was so much out there on interviewing skills and dressing for an interview, but nothing on building and maintaining your personal brand AT the job. So, I decided to launch a business styling new graduates, new entrepreneurs and basically anyone looking to re-brand themselves for promotion.

I published ‘Make Your Closet Pay‘ because I want people to help people get rid of the items their not wearing and reinvest that money into themselves, whether it be in paying off debt, going on that dream vacation or purchasing clothing that they WILL wear. I’ve had an eBay store since my early days in Atlanta and now that I use it to sell my thrifted items, I’ve used the profit to pay down debt, go home to London for 2 weeks and buy $45 Jimmy Choos!

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3. Who are your top 3 women inspirations, famous or non-famous, and why?

My mommy. The older I get, the more I realize what an awesome woman my mother is. She was widowed at the age of 25 with 3 young children, in London, thousands of miles away from her family and friends in Jamaica and somehow just made it work. She met my dad in her late thirties and created this fabulosity that you see today 😉 But listening to her hard earned wisdom on life has made me a better wife and one day mother.

Violette Sproul, Founder of Femfessionals. I met her at a conference a few years back and was immediately in awe of her honesty when it came to managing business and life. I asked a question pertaining to timing and when to have children and she flat out told me, “There’s no good time…just do it. You’ll make it work somehow.” She’s been one of my mentors and sounding boards ever since.

My business coach, Kimberly Pitts is my idol. She is operates her business, marriage and motherhood in such excellence and is just an all around phenomenal woman. She is able to look at my business in such a different way and makes sure that I have all the tools necessary to be successful. She goes above and beyond what I pay her for because she believes in me understands that my success is her calling card. When I’m successful, SHE’s successful. Amazing woman

4. One piece of advice you have for women entrepreneurs?

Go for it! I chose this road because I saw something missing in the marketplace. I believe the world is as nuts as it is because the people who are called to make the necessary changes are chained to the wrong job. If you have a desire to something, do it. The world needs your gifts, talents and abilities!

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5. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

In 5 years, I’ll be traveling the world with my husband and babies buying beautiful pieces for my online store. I’ll have a show produced by the Property Brothers where we go to run down stores and smelly thrift stores and turn them into high end boutiques (think the British show ‘Mary Portas-Queen of Shops). Probably have a daytime Emmy and be back home in South Florida with a condo on Biscayne. My heart’s desire is to be an ex-Pat and spend half the year in London or Dusseldorf and the other half in South Florida.

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