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Auto Review | 2018 Mitsubishi Outlander AWC

January 16, 2018 by Whitney 4 Comments

The 2018 Mitsubishi Outlander was an excellent companion during my winter break! I was able to maneuver through the snow-covered streets with confidence and ease, thanks to the Super All-Wheel Controls. This advanced technology gives you maximum traction and makes driving around under various weather conditions much easier. The vehicle also has 4 diver modes including Normal, Snow, Lock and AWC ECO Mode. I found these modes especially handy while traveling approximate 50-55 minutes to visit family during the holidays.

Related: 2017 Mitsubishi Outlander Auto Review

The Labrador Black Metallic 4-door SUV was a nice ride, but I didn’t feel much difference between the 2018 and the 2017 model while driving. When it came to the physical and safety features, however, there were a few differences:

  • 7-inch display touchscreen has replaced the 6.1-inch display
  • Blind Spot Warning with Rear Cross Traffic Alert 
  • Chrome Grille Accents
  • Lane Change Assist
Read about the differences between the (@mitsucars) 2018 Mitsubishi Outlander and the 2017 model.

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During my winter break, I also took the 2018 Mitsubishi Outlander for a spin to Downtown Baltimore. My parents gifted Darrius and I tickets to a comedy show for Christmas, so I thought the ride Downtown would be the perfect time to test out the backseat’s comfortability. With my parents seated in the 2nd row, they were able to comfortably withstand a 30-minute ride.

Although the 2nd row is said to fit 3 people, I think if another full-size adult was riding with my parents they would NOT be too comfy. It would be a snug fit, to say the least. Same goes for the 3rd-row; a snug, and even tight fit, for sure! For even more exterior and interior specifics, as well as more safety features and the price, check out the information below.

Exterior

  • Tire Pressure Monitoring System
  • Tires – Front Performance
  • Tires – Rear Performance
  • Compact Spare Tire
  • Power Windows
  • Privacy Glass

Interior

  • Heated Front Seats & Steering Wheel
  • 50/50 Flat Fold Down 3rd Row Seats
  • Keyless Entry & Keyless Start
  • Steering Wheel Controls
  • Remote Trunk Release
  • Back-Up Camera
  • 6 Speakers

Saftey & Security Features

  • Lane Departure Warning (Optional)
  • Driver & Passenger Air Bag
  • Front & Rear Head Air Bag
  • Blind Spot Monitor
  • Child Safety Locks
  • Cross-Traffic Alert
  • Front Side Air Bag

Total MSRP: $32,060

*a little over $300 less than the 2017 model*

*MSRP (Manufactured Suggested Retail Price)*

Fuel Economy: 26 MPG & 3.8 Gallons per 100 Miles

*same MPG & gallons per mile with the 2017 model*

Check out the (@mitsucars) 2018 Mitsubishi Outlander 2.4 AWC Auto Review! #DriveMitsubishi

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So tell me, what do you think about the 2018 Mitsubishi Outlander? Let me know!

Thanks for reading and commenting and until next time, be blessed and stay safe.

Love & light…xo!

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Lifestyle | How to Choose a Word of the Year

January 10, 2018 by Whitney 12 Comments

In my last post, I revealed my 2018 Word of the Year (WOTY). Although I’ve been coming up with a WOTY since 2016, this year I was prompted by my Lara Casey Goal Planner to add an anchor scripture to go along with my word. One I figured out my word, coming up with a scripture was relatively easy because I knew exactly what kind of scriptures I should search for.

But, back to my WOTY post… I received several messages, asking how come up with a WOTY. Not knowing where to start is totally understandable. I was in the same position a few years ago. Excited and ready to choose a word for the New Year, I had no clue how to pick just ONE word. So, if you haven’t decided on your 2018 word, below are a few tips to help get you started!

RELATED: 5 REASONS WHY YOUR VISION BOARD WON’T WORK

How to Choose a Word of the Year

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Your WOTY should:

  1. Be aligned with your yearly goals
    • list a few yearly goals and start thinking of words that are aligned with those goals
    • refer to your vision board for inspiration as well
  2. Help guide the work you do
    • think of words that correlate with your daily work and lifestyle
  3. Inspire you Daily
    • every time you see and speak your WOTY it should ignite some excitement, joy, or another positive emotion

When choosing your WOTY ask yourself:

  1. Can this word apply to more than one area of my life?
    • think about words that can be used in at least 3 area of your life
    • Example: WOTY – Revive // Areas of my life I want to REVIVE: (1) faith, (2) finances, and (3) marriage
  2. What do I want more AND less of in my life?
    • write down what want more AND less of in your life this year (BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF)
    • look back at your list and figure out what words can help you achieve those things

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30 “Word of the Year” Suggestions

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I hope this post is helpful, and I hope it encourages you to come up with your 2018 WOTY. If you do, be sure to let me know which word you chose below! Thanks for reading and commenting and until next time, be blessed and stay safe.

Love & light…xo!

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Life Update + My Word for 2018

January 5, 2018 by Whitney 14 Comments

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

I know, I know. It’s been a while. 4 months tomorrow to be exact. My last post was about preparing for a new season, and it’s ironic because looking back I realize that after publishing that post I was about to enter into a new season myself. It was a season that would require my full attention, meaning I would have to step away from one thing to focus on another. So, I decided to push pause on creating new content for WNJ in order to nurture my other brand, Fearless Woman I am. I struggled with this decision for weeks but in the end, I knew it was best. Here’s what I accomplished as a result:

  • Successfully Executed FWIAM’s 1st Vision Board Event 
    • Held in Columbia, Maryland
  • Created & Showcased 2 FWIAM Products
    •  Pillow & T-Shirt
  • Hosted our 2nd Annual Blessing Bag Drive for Generosity:Global
    • Collected & Made 75+ Blessing Bags for the Homeless in my hometown, Baltimore City

Accomplishing these goals gave me a sense of pride. Yes, pride. I am not ashamed to say that I am proud of myself! For almost 2 years, I was unsure about how to grow FWIAM. There were times when I had absolutely no clue what to do next, but despite the uncertainty giving up was never an option. I prayed for clarity and direction, and once I (finally) sat still long enough to hear what God was telling me, I knew it was GO TIME! I stepped aside and allowed Him to order my steps. There was no way I could have executed my vision trying to juggle both brands. Not the way I was doing it anyway. So, in the end, I am thankful for the unplanned, yet very necessary pause I took with blogging.

Learning to step aside and let God take control is tough, but it’s always worth it in the end.

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Propelling FWIAM wasn’t the only thing I did during my 4-month hiatus. I was knee-deep in my 1st 6-week fitness boot camp with my husband. This boot camp was also unexpected. Darrius was all signed up and ready to go, and I was planning on being his biggest cheerleader. Afterall, I was already walking a mile every other morning, and getting a lot better with my food choices. I was good, so I figured this boot camp would be great for him. He needed to catch up with me!

Well, fast forward a few days and I’m walking into the gym on Day 1 of the 6-week boot camp with him. Not what you expected, huh? Me either! But after hearing more about the process and reading some of the literature Darrius brought home, boot camp didn’t seem that bad. So I joined him. As time went on, I realized that he needed me to keep him on track with the clean eating and I needed him to help keep me on track with the consistent workouts. After losing several pounds and more inches in 6 weeks than I thought possible, Darrius and I actually joined the gym and have made the decision to make this lifestyle change, together.

* Praise Report: After the 6 weeks, Darrius went from diabetic to pre-diabetic and I have been fibroid free since August! 

I was thoroughly enjoying my life during those 4 months! FWIAM was flourishing, Darrius and I were getting healthier, we were spending a lot of time volunteering, as well as enjoying moments with our family and friends. Things were flowing effortlessly, and I felt like I was at my best; spiritually, mentally and physically. There were a few bumps in the road, but nothing too major. That was until a few days after Thanksgiving…

My brother-in-law, Hakim, unexpectedly passed away right after the holiday. Darrius and I were in Delaware with the family, laughing and having THE BEST time during Thanksgiving weekend, so to get this news after just seeing our brother days earlier was devastating, to say the least. My priority since that day has been making sure that my husband is OK, both mentally and spiritually. Yes, he and our marriage are always a top priority, but in this instance, it’s a little different.

Needless to say, this tragic incident has left both me and Darrius feeling out of it. I’ve noticed that some of our routines have been disrupted, and rightly so. The grieving and healing process takes time. However, around the Christmas holiday, I was thinking about the upcoming year and how I wanted things to get back on track. I don’t think, after such a huge loss, things will ever be “normal” again, but creating a new normal is definitely doable. Which leads me to my word of the year which is, REVIVE.

Revive: to give new strength or energy to

My goal in 2018 is to give new strength and energy to: 

  • My Faith
    • complete the Bible in one year (via the YouVersion App)
    • invite at least 1 person (or couple) to church once a quarter
    • become a partner at Bridgeway
  • My Health & Wellness
    • resume training at our gym at least 3 days a week
    • continue clean eating & increasing water intake
    • begin swimming again
  • My Marriage 
    • more date nights
    • more trips & events
    • more “phone-free” evenings
  • My Finances 
    • continue growing business
    • create new streams of income
    • TITHE + SAVE
  • Certain Relationships
    • make more memories with family
    • strengthen current friendships
    • cultivate new relationships

My reference scripture for my word of the year is:

“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.” ~ Isaiah 43:19

So tell me, what is your word of the year and why? Let me know below! 

I know this post was a long one, but I really wanted to share what’s been going on in my world for the past 4 months. I’ve missed creating new content and engaging with you, so get ready for the revival of WNJ. 2018 is going to be AMAZING. I can feel it, and I hope you’re ready because I’m taking you along for the ride! Thanks, as always, for reading and commenting and until next time, be blessed and stay safe.

Love & light…xo!

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Lifestyle | What I Usually Wear to Work + Preparing for a New Season

September 6, 2017 by Whitney 7 Comments

If you don’t know by now that I’m a lover of kimonos, I’m not sure we’ve met. At least twice a week, and once on the weekend, I can be spotted wearing a kimono. Because most of my workdays are spent at my desk, running errands, or a little bit of both, kimonos are one of the easiest pieces for me to style. I’ve shared this many times before on WNJ, but when it comes to deciding what I’m going to wear during the work week, comfort and functionality come first, then style. That said, the outfit shown here is definitely a typical workday OOTD, turban included.

Related: Styling a Black & White Kimono 

Turban: Amazon (same) // Earrings: H&M (old) // Bag: Marc Jacobs, TJMaxx (another option) // Sandals: Nordstrom Rack (another option)

I’m blessed to work in an environment that allows me to dress according to my personal style. If I’m having a bad hair day, and there are no meetings or office visits scheduled, I can simply wear a fashionable turban. That may not be a big deal for some people, but when I can dress without certain restrictions, I tend to work a lot better. Speaking of work, I’ve been quite busy with my 9-5 this summer, hence the sporadic posts. Now that the summer season is winding down, things are slowing down a bit and my schedule is becoming less hectic.

As the season’s change, don’t forget to take some time to slow down and catch your breath. #selfcare

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Related: 7 Practical Ways to Deal with Stress

I think it’s important to slow down a bit when the seasons change. If only to catch your breath to reflect on the previous months, taking a little time to pause is crucial. If you’re constantly rushing from season to season you’re not allowing yourself any time to reflect and potentially grow from the previous season. Here are 5 simple questions to can ask and answer right before the end of each season:

  1. What were some of your favorite experiences this season?
  2. What are something’s you wish went a differently?
  3. What did you learn from these experiences?
  4. How are you going to maneuver differently in the upcoming season? 
  5. What things are you looking forward to in the upcoming season?
Stop rushing from season to season. Give yourself some time reflect, then move forward.

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Kimono: Nordstrom Rack (another option) // Top: Good Luck Gem, Nordstrom Rack (same)

So tell me, how often do you slow down to reflect before entering a new season? How are you preparing for the upcoming fall season? 

Thanks for reading, and be sure to share your thoughts below. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Auto Review | 2017 Mazda CX-5 Grand Touring

August 31, 2017 by Whitney 4 Comments

The week of my birthday, I had to pleasure of test driving the 2017 Mazda CX-5 Grand Touring. Becuase I’d already tested the 2016 Mazda CX-5, I was a bit skeptical at first. I thought to myself, how much different can this model really be? Well, to my surprise the 2017 model had a few noticeable differences and improvements. The first being the size of the SUV. At first glance, there was no doubt the 2017 model was a bit larger than last year’s. I also noticed this when I sat in the driver’s seat. The larger size definitely made for a more comfortable driving experience.

Related: 2016 Mazda CX-5 Review

2017 Mazda CX-5

2017 Mazda CX-5

The most significant change, however, was the sleeker design in the dashboard, as well as the upgraded center consoles in the front and back. When I’m driving, I like to have an easy place to store my keys, phone, and water bottle. The 2017 model made storing these items hassle free. Moving to the backseat, the console included not only 2 cup holders but also a place to hold your phone and ports to charge the battery. My 2 backseat drivers had found those features extremely accommodating!

See how the (@mazdausa) 2017 Mazda CX-5 compares to the 2016 model. #DriveMazda

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While driving, I also noticed that the engine of the 2017 Mazda CX-5 was very quiet. I’m not sure about you, but I’m not a fan of vehicles with loud engines. A quiet engine is a plus for both the driver and passengers. Check out more of my favorite exterior, interior, and safety features below:

Exterior

  • Rain Sensing Windshield Wipers
  • 19-inch Alloy Wheels
  • Rear Roof Spoiler

Interior

  • Spacious 5-Passenger Seating
  • Push Button Engine Start
  • Power Moonroof

Saftey & Security Features

  • Blind Spot Monitoring
  • Rear Cross Traffic Alert
  • Rear Privacy Glass
  • Lane Keep Assist
Check out the (@mazdausa) 2017 Mazda CX-5 Grand Touring auto review! #DriveMazda

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2017 Mazda CX-5

2017 Mazda CX-5

2017 Mazda CX-5

So tell me, what do you think about the 2017 Mazda CX-5 Grand Touring? Can you see yourself owning one? 

All in all, I was very impressed with the 2017 Mazda CX-5 Grand Touring upgrades. The SUV looks better, drives smoother and quieter, and has more interior space. If you’re in the market for a new vehicle and you want to drive something sophisticated, comfortable, sleek and safe I’d definitely think about purchasing this 2017 model. Thanks for reading and as always, be blessed and stay safe!

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Travel | The Dominican Republic, Dreams Punta Cana Resort & Spa

August 31, 2017 by Whitney 6 Comments

As I mentioned in my last post, Darrius and I spent 5 days in the Dominican Republic celebrating my 31st birthday. Our home for those 5 glorious days was Dreams Punta Cana Resort & Spa. Approximately 25 minutes from the airport, the palatial all-inclusive resort was breathtaking at first glance. Once we drove past the huge brass gates, our eyes were fixed on the beautifully landscaped surroundings, as well as the pristine outdoor lobby. We were greeted with a glass of champagne, then escorted to the front desk. Darrius, a hospitality professional, and expert, immediately mentioned how accommodating and knowledge the staff was. I couldn’t agree more!

Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

Outdoor Lobby

Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

King Room with Pool View (Photo Credit)

Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

Views from the Balcony

Our room was almost identical to the one pictured above. The only difference was our room had a gorgeous view of the garden and sandy beach. Darrius and I were very impressed with the cleanliness of the rooms, as well as the huge shower/tub. I forgot to snap a picture, but that shower was massive!

We arrived later in afternoon on the first day, so we spent most of our time lounging and napping. We did, however, venture to the other side of the resort for dinner. Of the six à la carte restaurants we chose to dine at the international buffet, World Café,. From sushi to pizza, to fresh fruit and the decadent dessert bar, the options were endless! World Café was our choice most mornings as well because it’s the only restaurant on the resort to serve breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

Punta Cana, Dominican Republic
We made it a point to visit a new restaurant each night for dinner. My favorite meal was from Oceana. The salmon literally melted in my mouth, and the shrimp Cesar salad was divine! Darrius was a huge fan of his mussels appetizer from Seaside Grill, as well as the hearty beef stew prepared at the Bordeaux. Below are the restaurants we visited, along with a brief description.

Oceana – Á La Carte Specialties & Fresh Seafood

Seaside Grill – Grilled Steaks & Hamburgers

Bordeaux – Delectable French Cuisine

World Café – International Buffet

Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

Dreams Resort and Spa Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

Aside from eating VERY well, we also made time to enjoy the lovely beach and pool area. The older I get, the more I become a beach lover. We spent hours at the beach, just relaxing on our beach bed and playing in the ocean, on our first full day. The beach beds were heavenly, and the unlimited food and drink service was superb! The fresh paella, warm breeze, and sun rays made for such an enjoyable experience.

We decided to spend a day a the pool later in the week. From the swim-up bar to the poolside lunch, Darrius was in his world! While lounging and swimming, we met a few nice families from Atlanta and California and a newly married couple from Virginia. It never fails; whenever we go somewhere we meet at least one new person, couple or family. I guess we both have friendly faces?

Dreams Resort and Spa Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

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The one day we decided to go off the resort was to enjoy a morning in the middle of the ocean. Yep, our speed boating and snorkeling excursion placed us smack dab in the middle of the Atlantic. This adventure was a bit outside of my comfort zone. Not because I can’t swim, but because I’ve never been swimming so far out in the ocean! Putting my reservations aside, we decided to let Darrius drive the speedboat, which was a very smart decision because I probably would have only driven 6 MPH the entire time. When it came to snorkeling, I must admit that I shocked myself. I fearlessly jumped out of our boat and went for it. The experience was one I will NEVER forget!

Afterwards, we zipped off to a shallow, and absolutely gorgeous, island for rum and coke and swimming. We frolicked in the water for about a 30 minutes or so, chatting with the other travelers from England, France, and Canada. The day couldn’t have been more perfect. The excursion was certainly worth every dime! Below are a few pictures of our adventure. I haven’t uploaded them from the excursion CD to my laptop just yet, but I think you can get a sense of how much fun we had.

Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

So tell me, have you ever been to Punta Cana? Does my experience make you want to book a trip? Let me know! 

This trip was very special for us because it was our first out of the country trip together. It was also our first official vacation since we’ve been married. Our honeymoon was a bit unconventional, which we both thoroughly enjoyed, but this trip to Punta Cana seemed like a “real” honeymoon. I can’t wait to share many more adventures with Darrius, and I look forward to those travel experiences with you all as well. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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Lifestyle | Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress + Life Lessons at 31

August 29, 2017 by Whitney 8 Comments

A few weeks ago, I celebrated my 31st birthday. To say the celebration was enjoyable is an understatement! My husband and I traveled to the Dominican Republic and enjoyed 5 relaxing fun-filled and glorious days in Punta Cana. While there, I wore a black Rachel Roy tunic dress, also known as my “birthday dress”. I wanted something flowy, lightweight and short, and this option was perfect!

We spent most of our days lounging by the beach or the pool, but I did get a chance to sneak off one morning to indulge in a little “me time”. I sat on our patio and filled a few pages in my journal. I like to reflect on my past year around my birthday. While some of my reflections will remain private, below are a few things I’ve learned over the past year about faith, marriage, life, and finances.

Related: 50 Life Goals

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

Shift Dress: Rachel Roy, Macy’s (same) // Sandals: Melissa, Nordstrom Rack (another option) // Clutch: Love, Cortnie (same)

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

FAITH | Without my faith, I am nothing. God has always been the center of my life, but since turning 30 I have worked extremely hard to build a personal relationship with Him. Through daily devotionals, praying with my husband, and setting aside time in the morning and evening for Bible Study, I am constantly growing into the woman God has called me to be. It’s an ongoing transformation, but I am so happy that I’ve made deepening my relationship with God a priority. Because of this decision, several areas of my life have improved greatly.

Related: Spiritual Wellness | Forgiveness & Grace

MARRIAGE | Ever since I was a little girl I dreamed of becoming a writer, a wife, and a mother. I never dreamed of the perfect wedding day or the perfect dress. My focus was always the marriage itself, as well as building a family. I’ve always seen positive displays of love, so I’ve always known what real love looks like. With Darrius, I have that. The love we share is a godsend and it’s something I do not take for granted. Our marriage is built on a solid foundation; God is at the center. I have learned to make our marriage a priority, which in turn has made me a better wife and partner. As I grow in Christ, I know that our marriage will only continue to thrive and get better.

Life is short. Life is a gift. Life is to be LIVED. #wnjinspired

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LIFE | Life is short. Life is a gift. Life is to be LIVED. Although not perfect, God has blessed me with an amazing life. I pray over my life daily and make a conscious effort to keep certain energy at bay. I understand the importance of surrounding myself with uplifting, genuine, and purpose driven people. Looking at my circle today, it blows my mind at how diverse, yet similar we really are. Our day-to-day lives may be different, but our intention to be the very best human beings possible and our love for one another is the same.

FINANCES | Money has always been a touchy subject for me, but that’s because I never took the time to really understand it. For the past year or so, I’ve made it a point to learn more about money. I’ve read books, listened to podcasts, as well as discussed my finances with trusted individuals. All this in hopes to become educated so that I’m able to make wise financial decisions for myself, my businesses, and our family.

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

Black Turban: Amazon (same)

Black Rachel Roy Tunic Dress

So tell me, what are some lessons you’ve learned thus far about faith, love, life, and finances? Also, what do you think about my black Rachel Roy tunic dress? Let me know! 

I don’t claim to have all the answers, nor do I know it all. However, the lessons shared are just a few things that I know for sure. As I embark on this, my 31st year, I anticipate great things! I hope you stick around. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…xo!

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Spiritual Wellness | Forgiveness + Grace

July 26, 2017 by Whitney 8 Comments

We often think of forgiveness as something we extend to other people, but how often do we forgive ourselves? How often do we extend ourselves the grace we so generously extend to others? Not sure about you, but forgiving and extending myself some grace is something I constantly work on.

At the top of 2017, I made a few declarations. I declared that I would (1) lose a certain amount of weight, (2) gain a certain amount of followers, (3) spend time nurturing old friendships, and possibly, foster new ones, and (4) save a certain amount of money. I am pleased to have made improvements in some areas, but not all. The “not all” part really irritates me. I have been tirelessly working to achieve certain goals, and to know that I have fallen short in some areas does not sit well with me.

Related: 7 Practical Ways to Deal with Stress

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Dress: Want & Need, Nordstrom Rack (Another Option) // Flats: Melissa, Nordstrom Rack (Same Designer, Another Option)

Thankfully, my attitude has changed. Granted I have not met certain goals, but I have decided to extend myself some grace. I have also forgiven myself for making a few missteps along the way. Not losing those pounds, saving that amount of money, or spending time with a few friends is not the end of the world. While my intentions were good, and my heart was in the right place, things happen. Life happens, and that is OK. Thankfully, God has granted me a 2nd (3rd and 4th) chance to “get it right”.  Now, it is up to me to get back on track.

Don’t forget to extend yourself the same grace and forgiveness that you extend to others.

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Related: 11 Things You Should Do Every Day

Through personal Bible study, and talking to my husband (and certain family members), I have realized that being so hard on myself is not healthy. Feeling guilty or disappointed is natural, but you should not let those feelings fester. Settling into unhappiness and disappointment can quickly lead to depression. That is a road no one wants to go down. Instead, be patient with yourself, forgive yourself, and extend yourself a little grace. Afteall, if God can forgive you, and if He can constantly extend grace and mercy towards you, daily, why can’t you do the same for yourself?

Be kind to yourself, forgive yourself, and be patient with yourself.

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Bracelets: Monet, Macy’s (Another Option)

Forgiveness and Extending Grace
So tell me, have you been too hard on yourself lately? What do you need to forgive yourself for? Let me know!

As always, thanks for reading and commenting. Until next time, be blessed and stay safe…XO!

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